Immediate help needed....like now

[drf408]

So this chick I actually posted about a while back, met her out we hit it off awesome she even wanted to come with me but her GFs prevented that, got her number. She was soo about meeting me told me "lets get together this weekend or sooner. Very next day she goes cold, weird, so i try again, VERY weird, like she ignores my invite to go out and just tells me to "have a good weekend" after SHE works me hardcore. I say F it and drop it.
I get a text from her a couple weeks ago "Hi how are you!?" Immediately followed by "its $##%$ I hope you remember me!!!" so we start texting back and forth she is super flirty "omg i am happy you though of me" dissapointed she cant see me right away since I had a trip to Canada. I come back (last weekend) more of the same, she sends me a pic of her, tells me how I am great for her lookwise. Then goes distant...so finally today i send her "deja vu...."she responds "aww I have nothing to hide an not playing games, I'm in #@$% how about Sunday night?"

What would you do???

 

[scribblec]

personally if you respond i can pretty much garuntee she flakes, let me kno how it goes

 

[drf408]

So I shouldn't respond at all???? This s#% is one of the weirdest situations I've had! This girl has come on to me like I'm the most amazing thing ever and then a couple days later..nothing. Her last positive txt on Sunday was telling me I"m hot and she cant wait to see me. She may just be a bia%#%

 

[Plec07]

Erm.... split personality disorder? I'd say ask her out, if she flakes then drop contact. If she contacts you again all flirty like, don't respond. See what she does, that'll let you know if she's really interested or not. It'll make her realise if she flakes on you - your not happy about it. Actions speak louder than words.

 

[mahoney]

So in a nutshell - time spent with her=great, time spent texting=not great?

Then... Maybe text less! Or don't worry about the texts?

If date 1 is good and date 2 is good, then why do you care about the texts in-between the dates?

Excessive texting is a massive killer of attraction because it's a blatant plea for reassurance, it highlights your insecurity, it makes a girl feel obligated, and most of the time it's also really kind of boring. Go back and read those texts again, did you really need to write that ? no

Back offa bit in-between the dates, the important thing is the time spent with someone, not the texts inbetween