"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FlyBri17

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there is this real fine girl that I've been taklin to lately and we been talking on the phone like once every 2 - 3 days and shes usually the one that calls me anyway today she was home alone (long story) and I went over her house we talked alot at 1st and we started feeling on each other a bit then I went for a kiss and she moved and then kiss me on the cheek. Was goin for this kiss going a bit too far? but I dont understand kuz she let me feel on her. I wanted to ask her out but I'm getting mixed messages. any suggestions on what to do next :mad:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ask her on a date, good date, give kiss.

If that doesn't work out, she's not interested and that is IT.

Think about it, would you deny her ANY OF THOSE if you were interested in her?
 
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Don't contact her. When she finally caves, wait a couple more days and then give her an exact day to meet with an exact time and where. Then, heavy kino from the beggining and take it from there. If she still doesn't put out, forget her.
 
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i wouldn't worry about it. either she's the type that just wants to fool around and doesn't want to get to close. like a friend w/ benifits. so instead of looking at her like a girlfriend, just look at her like a spank buddy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you did the kiss test, she failed.

NEXT!
 
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