"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FlyBri17

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there is this real fine girl that I've been taklin to lately and we been talking on the phone like once every 2 - 3 days and shes usually the one that calls me anyway today she was home alone (long story) and I went over her house we talked alot at 1st and we started feeling on each other a bit then I went for a kiss and she moved and then kiss me on the cheek. Was goin for this kiss going a bit too far? but I dont understand kuz she let me feel on her. I wanted to ask her out but I'm getting mixed messages. any suggestions on what to do next :mad:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ask her on a date, good date, give kiss.

If that doesn't work out, she's not interested and that is IT.

Think about it, would you deny her ANY OF THOSE if you were interested in her?
 
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Don't contact her. When she finally caves, wait a couple more days and then give her an exact day to meet with an exact time and where. Then, heavy kino from the beggining and take it from there. If she still doesn't put out, forget her.
 
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i wouldn't worry about it. either she's the type that just wants to fool around and doesn't want to get to close. like a friend w/ benifits. so instead of looking at her like a girlfriend, just look at her like a spank buddy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you did the kiss test, she failed.

NEXT!
 
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