“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Imagine...

SinJester

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Imagine

Imagine a life without being able to see, imagine a life where you are blind. You cannot see, yet you can still hear.

Imagine all the brilliant pieces of music you could listen to. The classical masterpieces of age old composers, the driving riffs of heavy metal, an infectious party beat, the sweet sound of Brittany spear’s voice. You could listen to music that makes you jump for joy, that brings you to tears, that brings forth images of things you can no longer see.

Imagine all the magical conversations you can have with people and the things you could learn. You can really get to know people deeply, hear the dreams of a child, listen to an old person tell stories about things you can only begin to picture.

Imagine listening to the calming sounds of nature. A bird chirping, the ocean crashing gently on the shore, the wind rushing through leaves. The world at peace.

Imagine a life without being able to hear, imagine you are deaf. You cannot hear, yet you can still see.

Imagine all the wondrous sights you could see. You can gaze upon the finest art known to mankind, and even create your own. You could see spectacular sights that nature has created. A magical waterfall surrounded by luscious green plants, a wild lion on the hunt, two birds courting, a sunset.

Imagine all the knowledge you can obtain from books. Classic pieces of literature can be read, enjoyed and appreciated. You could write your own stories, share your own tales. You can still use the internet, reading about exciting discoveries, creating your own website, calling someone a n00b on a Halo forum.

Imagine still being able to know people, through sign language and lip reading. You can chat via instant messengers; share your dreams and fears. Tell them how you climbed a mountain and saw amazing sights that few others will ever witness.

Imagine not being able to walk, you can’t walk or run or jump. Yet you can still see, hear, feel, taste, smell... You can still live.

Now imagine being dead. You can’t feel anything, can’t know anything, can’t do anything. You can’t tell you mother, father, brother, sister, friends, family that you love them. Anything you wish you had done is now unfinished forever. It may be the end, maybe the beginning, but your time here is done.

Look at all the amazing things these people can do. Most of us complain that we are not handsome like the movie stars, aren’t as cool as the football captain, don’t have the job we want. Yet there are people far worse of that us – the hungry, poor, cold, homeless, desperate, war torn. Some people would give anything to have things we take for granted. Most of us have eyes but we do not see, ears but we do not hear, feelings that we numb via computers and technology. Is this how you want to live?

We can do anything the people above can, and more. The only thing that holds us back is ourselves. It’s far too easy to complain about what we don’t have rather than appreciate what we do. Don’t you see? We can all accomplish amazing feats even if we aren’t as good-looking, smart, and talented as someone else. These people are probably too busy worrying about what they don’t have to enjoy it anyway. Are they any better than us? No. You can be happier and more successful, you can live.. If it all gone tommorow, would you be reading this?

Are you alive or just breathing?

Because...

The biggest sin in life is not living.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don't imagine, REALIZE.


Look at yourself.

Step outside of your Life right now and take a look at your self.



Who do you see?



Look at just one self limiting belief, right now.

Pick one, any one.
Look at it.



Now, get a grasp on just HOW this little belief is stopping you from doing something, or being someone, or living in some way.

Now, how do you see yourself?

What do you feel, truly? Inside?
Are you happy, fulfilled? Or are you sad, angry, resentful for not living life you wish you would?


Imagine that person, in a year, still holding on to that one self limiting belief.

Now imagine yourself 10 years from now, still holding on to that belief.
And not living and doing and seeing the things you've always wanted to. Or wished you did.
Now see yourself on your death bed.
Is there anyone around?
Are you alone?
What are you feeling right now? On your actual death bed?Are you thinking about the things you did, or are you thinking about the things you wish you did, or wished you hadn't?



Imagine the PROFOUND and long lasting IMPACT that one little self limiting belief CHANGED your LIFE FOREVER.

One little belief....

Stopped you from living life to the fullest for you.


Do you see how being AFRAID of things is nonsensical?
How LIMITING these beliefs really are?

And how you are LETTING a belief, or many beliefs, completely TAKE OVER your thought process, so that you actually CHOOSE UNHAPPINESS??!


Does that blow your mind?!


Do you see the total devastaion you can actually wreak upon your Life because of one stupid little belief?
All the happiness you COULD have had, if only........




Remember Scrooge from A Christmas Carol?

Luckily for him, it was only ONE EVENING.
For many guys....

....it is a LIFETIME.

Choose wisely, friends.
Choose wisely.
Because the impact you will have on your life in the future is unbelievable.


Now, look back at yourself..come back into REAL TIME.

And understand , that you STILL HAVE A CHANCE to CHANGE.

You cannot EXPECT different RESULTS if you are NOT WILLING to CHANGE!

Watch "Click" and "A Christmas Carol".
They got a second chance, and it all got better.
Some guys don't. And it doesn't.
They can't even begin to acknowledge that they have control over their thoughts and CHOICES in Life, and the expereinces they want to have.

And apply those lessons to your Life, a real life...not some movie.
YOUR LIFE.
Your LIFE is REAL.
And the choices you are making today will affect you tomorrow.

Your Life is not a movie.
You are the one writing it in real time. What kind of movie are you writing?

What CHOICES are YOU MAKING?
 

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Hm thanks for that great post Interceptor.

Imagine that person, in a year, still holding on to that one self limiting belief.

Now imagine yourself 10 years from now, still holding on to that belief.
That definately puts things in perspective. The problem is most people just wait 1 year before they realize that if they don't take action NOW nothing will change. Most don't realize, or do and don't do anything about it, and this cycle repeats for life. Taking a limiting belief and looking forward is a good exercise. It makes you see that nothing will change unelss you do. Say you want to get bigger, but aren't lifting weights, look forward in time, are you any bigger?

Imagine -> Realize -> Act

Everything that you want that you don't have is just outside your comfort zone, waiting. You can step out and take it, but that would be leaving where you are comfortable. Just put one foot in front of the other, it is easier to move while you are already moving. Just one step...

'All you have to do is decide what to do with the time that is given to you.'

I had a realization recently. I was looking back on what I've done in my life so far. There are some things that I remember strongly, things that stick out in my mind. I want to do more things like that, things I look back and remember, things I'm glad I did. What do you remember and apreciate in your life? I think that in order to move forward, you must first look back. In order to move, we must have a path and a direction, otherwise we will become lost.

What do you want to do? Just take a step...
 

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Reminds me of that poor soul in the Metallica "ONE" video:

Darkness imprisoning me
All that I see
Absolute horror
I cannot live
I cannot die
Trapped in myself
Body my holding cell

Landmine has taken my sight
Taken my speech
Taken my hearing
Taken my arms
Taken my legs
Taken my soul
Left me with life in hell​
If you aren't happy with who you are can you imagine what horrors lie within if you only have your subconcious to listen to?
 

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Absolutely brilliant.

All of you.

Letting something as stupid as fear get to me is incredibly silly, when you think about it. Sometimes I wish I could remove that part of my brain that makes me fear things. Damn I have a lot to learn still.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Jon55 said:
Absolutely brilliant.

All of you.

Letting something as stupid as fear get to me is incredibly silly, when you think about it. Sometimes I wish I could remove that part of my brain that makes me fear things. Damn I have a lot to learn still.
Do not mistake young brother, fear is a wonderful motivator if it's goal is to propel you to the next phase of your maturation.

Like Bodhi said: "Fear causes hesitation. And hesitation will cause your worst fears to come true."

Every negative can be spun into a positive.
 

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Interceptor said:
Don't imagine, REALIZE.


Look at yourself.

Step outside of your Life right now and take a look at your self.



Who do you see?



Look at just one self limiting belief, right now.

Pick one, any one.
Look at it.



Now, get a grasp on just HOW this little belief is stopping you from doing something, or being someone, or living in some way.

Now, how do you see yourself?

What do you feel, truly? Inside?
Are you happy, fulfilled? Or are you sad, angry, resentful for not living life you wish you would?


Imagine that person, in a year, still holding on to that one self limiting belief.

Now imagine yourself 10 years from now, still holding on to that belief.
And not living and doing and seeing the things you've always wanted to. Or wished you did.
Now see yourself on your death bed.
Is there anyone around?
Are you alone?
What are you feeling right now? On your actual death bed?Are you thinking about the things you did, or are you thinking about the things you wish you did, or wished you hadn't?



Imagine the PROFOUND and long lasting IMPACT that one little self limiting belief CHANGED your LIFE FOREVER.

One little belief....

Stopped you from living life to the fullest for you.


Do you see how being AFRAID of things is nonsensical?
How LIMITING these beliefs really are?

And how you are LETTING a belief, or many beliefs, completely TAKE OVER your thought process, so that you actually CHOOSE UNHAPPINESS??!


Does that blow your mind?!


Do you see the total devastaion you can actually wreak upon your Life because of one stupid little belief?
All the happiness you COULD have had, if only........




Remember Scrooge from A Christmas Carol?

Luckily for him, it was only ONE EVENING.
For many guys....

....it is a LIFETIME.

Choose wisely, friends.
Choose wisely.
Because the impact you will have on your life in the future is unbelievable.


Now, look back at yourself..come back into REAL TIME.

And understand , that you STILL HAVE A CHANCE to CHANGE.

You cannot EXPECT different RESULTS if you are NOT WILLING to CHANGE!

Watch "Click" and "A Christmas Carol".
They got a second chance, and it all got better.
Some guys don't. And it doesn't.
They can't even begin to acknowledge that they have control over their thoughts and CHOICES in Life, and the expereinces they want to have.

And apply those lessons to your Life, a real life...not some movie.
YOUR LIFE.
Your LIFE is REAL.
And the choices you are making today will affect you tomorrow.

Your Life is not a movie.
You are the one writing it in real time. What kind of movie are you writing?

What CHOICES are YOU MAKING?

Wow, your posts are amazing bro
 

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two great posts guys!! Loved them both, this thread should go in the best of motivation if you ask me :up:
 
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