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This got me thinking. Your great grandfathers didn't have instagram and Porn hub. They got turned on the natural way by going physically outside and looking and chatting up women the natural way. Today's men got a dopamine overload.

Today we live in an anti social culture where we are encouraged to stay home and binge on Netflix, porn hub and instagram. I was browsing at Instagram last night and I won't deny it, when my sex drive turns on, I get tempted to stare at the many hot models and female crossfit athletes that are on there. I would say the most dangerous lazy position you can do, is being way too relaxed and comfortable, laying down in bed and scrolling through your iphone gazing at those females. If you're into semen retention and all that, that's the kiss of death.

My advice is unless you got a business to run, limit your phone usage to 30 minutes a day or something like that. Once your day is over, allow yourself to play with your phone for only 30 minutes, but once that 30 minutes is over, Put the phone down and go to bed. Get a hobby, start a journal, play the guitar and do something man, stay occupied instead of indulging on artificial technology.
 

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This got me thinking. Your great grandfathers didn't have instagram and Porn hub. They got turned on the natural way by going physically outside and looking and chatting up women the natural way. Today's men got a dopamine overload.

Today we live in an anti social culture where we are encouraged to stay home and binge on Netflix, porn hub and instagram. I was browsing at Instagram last night and I won't deny it, when my sex drive turns on, I get tempted to stare at the many hot models and female crossfit athletes that are on there. I would say the most dangerous lazy position you can do, is being way too relaxed and comfortable, laying down in bed and scrolling through your iphone gazing at those females. If you're into semen retention and all that, that's the kiss of death.

My advice is unless you got a business to run, limit your phone usage to 30 minutes a day or something like that. Once your day is over, allow yourself to play with your phone for only 30 minutes, but once that 30 minutes is over, Put the phone down and go to bed. Get a hobby, start a journal, play the guitar and do something man, stay occupied instead of indulging on artificial technology.
This is perfect advice. Avoid Instagram, OnlyFans, and PornHub. Giving up porn was one of the most difficult things I ever did.
 

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This is perfect advice. Avoid Instagram, OnlyFans, and PornHub. Giving up porn was one of the most difficult things I ever did.
I still use instagram though because I like some of the truther channels that are on there.

I notice during the night time, before bed is when the urge hits me the most. So I make a really conscious effort to avoid looking at any hot female pages that are on there. Because once you start gazing, one thing tends to lead to another lol
 

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This got me thinking. Your great grandfathers didn't have instagram and Porn hub. They got turned on the natural way by going physically outside and looking and chatting up women the natural way. Today's men got a dopamine overload.

Today we live in an anti social culture where we are encouraged to stay home and binge on Netflix, porn hub and instagram. I was browsing at Instagram last night and I won't deny it, when my sex drive turns on, I get tempted to stare at the many hot models and female crossfit athletes that are on there. I would say the most dangerous lazy position you can do, is being way too relaxed and comfortable, laying down in bed and scrolling through your iphone gazing at those females. If you're into semen retention and all that, that's the kiss of death.

My advice is unless you got a business to run, limit your phone usage to 30 minutes a day or something like that. Once your day is over, allow yourself to play with your phone for only 30 minutes, but once that 30 minutes is over, Put the phone down and go to bed. Get a hobby, start a journal, play the guitar and do something man, stay occupied instead of indulging on artificial technology.
You're definitely right. As a Generation Z baby myself, it's all too easy and accessible right now. Add this remote learning thing in college, and I feel like I'm castrated. Way too much pornography, way too many photos of beautiful women, it definitely kills drive and encourages unhealthy attachment and unlimited instant gratification for most men. Online dates are pointless and shouldn't exist.

It's not so much anti-social, just extremely less social. Your identity becomes your online persona, which is just a facade for your situations reality. Women are damned as well, with all their fictional and extremely perfect male ideals, and the rampant 'feminism' being spread all over the internet.

This might be a cliche, but I hate this goddamn generation. I'm so tired of slouching and looking down, it's all lazy stuff. I want to read a real book, work out at home, attend a real class. Just imagine what's gonna happen to the generations next to ours.
 

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You're definitely right. As a Generation Z baby myself, it's all too easy and accessible right now. Add this remote learning thing in college, and I feel like I'm castrated. Way too much pornography, way too many photos of beautiful women, it definitely kills drive and encourages unhealthy attachment and unlimited instant gratification for most men. Online dates are pointless and shouldn't exist.

It's not so much anti-social, just extremely less social. Your identity becomes your online persona, which is just a facade for your situations reality. Women are damned as well, with all their fictional and extremely perfect male ideals, and the rampant 'feminism' being spread all over the internet.

This might be a cliche, but I hate this goddamn generation. I'm so tired of slouching and looking down, it's all lazy stuff. I want to read a real book, work out at home, attend a real class. Just imagine what's gonna happen to the generations next to ours.

Yeah I agree. Things are not looking good for the next generation.

Hope your doing fine here in The Philippines brother. I heard things are very strict over there in Manila. Duterte is having people arrested for simply not wearing a mask. Whoa, is this true?
 

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Yes that is when it gets you. Your balls are full, aching. You just got out a steamy, hot bath...lying on your bed..
 

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If you're not jacking it off to those things I don't think it's bad. However I agree that cutting off porn and other things rise your desire towards real women. I can watch good looking girls on insta all day and still get turned on by a "real" girl.

Everyone have different perception of what's real and what's not. Porn is the problem so I advise every guy to cut it off completely.
 

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Duterte is having people arrested for simply not wearing a mask. Whoa, is this true?
In some barangays, it does happen. Even when you're remotely outside. Just a reprimand at the city hall. In other places, however, no one even does anything. Some people who monitor health protocols don't care.
 

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I still use instagram though because I like some of the truther channels that are on there.

I notice during the night time, before bed is when the urge hits me the most. So I make a really conscious effort to avoid looking at any hot female pages that are on there. Because once you start gazing, one thing tends to lead to another lol
You're correct on how it happens.

You're definitely right. As a Generation Z baby myself, it's all too easy and accessible right now. Add this remote learning thing in college, and I feel like I'm castrated. Way too much pornography, way too many photos of beautiful women, it definitely kills drive and encourages unhealthy attachment and unlimited instant gratification for most men. Online dates are pointless and shouldn't exist.

It's not so much anti-social, just extremely less social. Your identity becomes your online persona, which is just a facade for your situations reality. Women are damned as well, with all their fictional and extremely perfect male ideals, and the rampant 'feminism' being spread all over the internet.

This might be a cliche, but I hate this goddamn generation. I'm so tired of slouching and looking down, it's all lazy stuff. I want to read a real book, work out at home, attend a real class. Just imagine what's gonna happen to the generations next to ours.
Millennials were the first generation that had easy access to online porn, but it got even easier in the late 2000s when the tube sites got going. Before the tube sites, finding porn online wasn't difficult and sometimes it was inexpensive and not free. Free porn was common enough before the tube sites.

Even before Insta, women were acting slooty on Facebook in the mid to late 2000s.

Porn will affect real life dating. However, a lot of people turn to porn after failures in real life dating. The porn-failing in real life cycle of negativity is a difficult one to break.

No porn, no fap, no processed food, lift weights, approach.

I had hopes Generation Z would be an upgrade over Millennials.
 

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Avoid hot baths. Take cold showers. In the winter start out warm but then gradually turn it cold.
Lol. I can control myself. No need for cold baths haha. Maybe once a year i lose control.
 

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You don't need to be following a bunch of hot women on instagram. It has other uses.

I follow very few hotties on instagram because of what you're talking about. That said, even following pictures of landscapes is still a waste of time.
 

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My advice is unless you got a business to run, limit your phone usage to 30 minutes a day or something like that.
I have a slightly different take and although I think it's great to detox from all electronics here and there, you can also use the technology in in a good way. Next time instead of looking at p0rn, girls on Instagram, look at stuff that will help you in life, like learn and read about how to do stuff, catch up on current events so you can make good decisions, use Instagram to learn,share,discover new things about hobbies, etc.

For example, I may do OLD messaging/swiping 15min a day. I check and read up about stocks around 30-45min a day in various increments throughout the day. I use Instagram to monitor all the trends and other people's creations for my hobbies like cars and motorcycles. I read about self help and current affairs. I read about up and coming technologies, etc.

TL;DR - Use the technology to fill your mind with useful $hit instead.
 

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This got me thinking. Your great grandfathers didn't have instagram and Porn hub. They got turned on the natural way by going physically outside and looking and chatting up women the natural way. Today's men got a dopamine overload.

Today we live in an anti social culture where we are encouraged to stay home and binge on Netflix, porn hub and instagram. I was browsing at Instagram last night and I won't deny it, when my sex drive turns on, I get tempted to stare at the many hot models and female crossfit athletes that are on there. I would say the most dangerous lazy position you can do, is being way too relaxed and comfortable, laying down in bed and scrolling through your iphone gazing at those females. If you're into semen retention and all that, that's the kiss of death.

My advice is unless you got a business to run, limit your phone usage to 30 minutes a day or something like that. Once your day is over, allow yourself to play with your phone for only 30 minutes, but once that 30 minutes is over, Put the phone down and go to bed. Get a hobby, start a journal, play the guitar and do something man, stay occupied instead of indulging on artificial technology.
Yesss! This is awesome advice my man!

This goes for OLD. Well said, brother.

Modern Man Advice
 

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This got me thinking. Your great grandfathers didn't have instagram and Porn hub. They got turned on the natural way by going physically outside and looking and chatting up women the natural way. Today's men got a dopamine overload.

Today we live in an anti social culture where we are encouraged to stay home and binge on Netflix, porn hub and instagram. I was browsing at Instagram last night and I won't deny it, when my sex drive turns on, I get tempted to stare at the many hot models and female crossfit athletes that are on there. I would say the most dangerous lazy position you can do, is being way too relaxed and comfortable, laying down in bed and scrolling through your iphone gazing at those females. If you're into semen retention and all that, that's the kiss of death.

My advice is unless you got a business to run, limit your phone usage to 30 minutes a day or something like that. Once your day is over, allow yourself to play with your phone for only 30 minutes, but once that 30 minutes is over, Put the phone down and go to bed. Get a hobby, start a journal, play the guitar and do something man, stay occupied instead of indulging on artificial technology.
I agree with you 100%

no fap helps too, I try to limit it as much as I can. Instead of doing it everyday, I do it once a week if I have too. I’m cycling test and sometimes it’s hard as hell to resist the urge lol. I do it At the beginning or mid week then Friday and Saturday I have sex.
 
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