"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"ima cut him off!" she told my friend

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well here is the situation.

I went into the bosses office today at work cause we get along with each other etc... and the girl that i like, and ive been messing with as some of yall know, was in there with her, eating dinner, so i went up to the boss and i told her, " hey let me get your phone number" right on front of the girl i like (Explanaiton later) so she said "aww im married i cant blah blah" but at the end she ended up giving it to me, as i walked out i said, "i dont want her nomore cause she dissed me on friday night" (Refering to the girl i got a crush on) she acted like she didnt care but you could tell she did, and then i just walked out"

now the reason why i did that was cause i sent her a sms asking her on a date and she never wrote back, she says that she never received it, it might be true cause my phone does that sometimes.
Now today she showed one of my friends all the messages i sent her wich pissed me off cause it was some personal things to her but she said that she showed him the messages to prove that she didnt receive the message where i asked her out. Later she told him that she was gonna "cut me off" cause what i did was very disrispectful...:rolleyes: .

Now this is the girl that likes me but has a boyfriend and still cheated on him by kissing me in more than one occasion still she says "thats nothing", but anyways i approached her today and asked her are u mad at me? she said no but its obvious that she is she told me that she didnt feel like talking blah blah blah so i said "aigh" and left. Later on i mentioned to her that it was messed up that she showed the messages to my friend, ar first she ignored me nut i repeated it, so she answer me with an attitude that it wasnt, and that she did that to prove him that she did no receive the message.


So now she is not talking to me and i try to act like wateva i dont care, but i do, i dont know what i should do here, so far ive try to talk about the problem she refused to do so, so i guess that ill just keep the silent treatment until she decides to speak to me again...
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wiesman44

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truthfully, i havent a clue what you are talking about. Please make sense and use proper english. Sorry dude
 

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My eyes are bleeding.

Yes.....do more approaches. What was your question again?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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man can somebody HELP me out in here if u aint gonna say nothing dont just freepost man.
 

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Yeah, you do care. And you're showing it in spades. Your little stunt with your "boss" was bullsh!t, a blatant attempt to make "your" girl jealous and she saw right through it.

Then you go up to her and ask,
"Are you mad at me?"
"Did you show my friend the message I sent you?"
"I don't like that. That was personal."

You're acting like a wuss. Why should you CARE if she's mad at you? What reason DOES she have to be mad at you? You just asked her out. That's NORMAL. Stop being scared of it. You KISSED her...why are you so bent out of shape over her? F'ing be a man and take your licks and MOVE ON.

Stop being so needy. Her not liking you is not the worst thing in the world that can happen. In fact, it's pretty trivial. She's gonna cut you off. What the FCUK is she giving you that she can "cut off"?? Stupid ho. :rolleyes:

And yes, that WAS a hard read, gramatically.
 

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Forget this b#tch.

She is trouble.

SHowing some dude the messages you sent her. Sounds like she's fvcking with you.

Anyways why would you want to hook up with a girl who has a BF? kisses you and then says that it's nothing?

NEXT>
 

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^^ ****... cause im trynna get the pu$$y...:D

but anyways she back talking to me now, well she said hi and told me that she was feeling sick cause its that time of the month, then she said that she was still very angry at me..... :rolleyes:
 
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