"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oni

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With so many things going on lately, i've been so lost and confused. I don't know how i got myself into this situation but here's what's happening. Homecoming is coming soon ( a little bit more than a month) and i have to get myself a date. I know there are lots of dates out there that i can choose from but there's just this girl that i have my eye on. I've known her since 8th grade and from then till 11th we've been friends. But i tried not to fall into the friend zone so over the summer before school started, i didn't talk to her unless she initiates a convo (in which she barely did) This year (12th grade), i don't see her much during school anymore and we seldom talk. We are still friends though .

Here's where it gets harder on me, last year she went to jnr prom with some guy, and that guy is probably going to ask her to homecoming this year. With this little time that i have, how can i compete against a guy who brought her to prom when i have this awkward history with her.

Also, here's where i get extremely frustrated. If somehow she ended up rejecting me, i was just gonna go ask the 2nd girl i have in mind but the thing is, she's a close friend of the 1st girl. Eversince i started talking to this 2nd girl, i've applied a lot of kino, humor etc.

So should i just take my chances with the 1st girl whom i really want or just go with the 2nd one?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being a DJ, you must make your own desicion. I really do hope you well, and if I could give any guidance that has helped me in the past... remember

THE POWER OF DETATCHMENT

Good Luck & God Bless
GateKeeper
 

Oni

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Yes, i've bene repeating that to myself over and over again but its just so hard to accept. BUt it must be done someday..
 

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Originally posted by Oni
With so many things going on lately, i've been so lost and confused. I don't know how i got myself into this situation but here's what's happening. Homecoming is coming soon ( a little bit more than a month) and i have to get myself a date. I know there are lots of dates out there that i can choose from but there's just this girl that i have my eye on. I've known her since 8th grade and from then till 11th we've been friends. But i tried not to fall into the friend zone so over the summer before school started, i didn't talk to her unless she initiates a convo (in which she barely did) This year (12th grade), i don't see her much during school anymore and we seldom talk. We are still friends though .

Here's where it gets harder on me, last year she went to jnr prom with some guy, and that guy is probably going to ask her to homecoming this year. With this little time that i have, how can i compete against a guy who brought her to prom when i have this awkward history with her.

Also, here's where i get extremely frustrated. If somehow she ended up rejecting me, i was just gonna go ask the 2nd girl i have in mind but the thing is, she's a close friend of the 1st girl. Eversince i started talking to this 2nd girl, i've applied a lot of kino, humor etc.

So should i just take my chances with the 1st girl whom i really want or just go with the 2nd one?
ask any random good lookin girl.
its pretty simple
prom is about havin fun not datin.

if you like wearing suits :/
 

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I'm sire glad I don't live in the US, with the whole 'date/prom' thing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oni

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Originally posted by Holland
I'm sire glad I don't live in the US, with the whole 'date/prom' thing.
i think its vital, for it teaches you a lot of stuff. mostly about self confidence etc. BUt ya, i think i got things starighten out
 

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HAHA RAWBLOOD, ITS NOT PROM.........HOMECOMING!!!


Anyways, go with the the 2nd girl, so she doesn't regect you. The first girl will get jelous and make this work to your advantange. Get her extremely jelous. THEN AFTER THIS, do the clubbing techniques in the DJ bible under CLUB. THIS IS GOLD. You'll get her so horny that she'll can't wait to leave with you!!!

LATE CHULO!
 

Oni

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that reminds me, where's the dj bible? it seemed to have gone missing. i need to read up on this =/
 

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throw your balls to the wall and do something man! ur not turing ur trying to hard!
 

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DJ Bible , and as for your problem, just ask her before the other guy does, if you get shot down then it doesnt matter, it was a complement to her, then ask the second girl, who cares if shes friends with her, its not like you slept with the first one
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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