"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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With so many things going on lately, i've been so lost and confused. I don't know how i got myself into this situation but here's what's happening. Homecoming is coming soon ( a little bit more than a month) and i have to get myself a date. I know there are lots of dates out there that i can choose from but there's just this girl that i have my eye on. I've known her since 8th grade and from then till 11th we've been friends. But i tried not to fall into the friend zone so over the summer before school started, i didn't talk to her unless she initiates a convo (in which she barely did) This year (12th grade), i don't see her much during school anymore and we seldom talk. We are still friends though .

Here's where it gets harder on me, last year she went to jnr prom with some guy, and that guy is probably going to ask her to homecoming this year. With this little time that i have, how can i compete against a guy who brought her to prom when i have this awkward history with her.

Also, here's where i get extremely frustrated. If somehow she ended up rejecting me, i was just gonna go ask the 2nd girl i have in mind but the thing is, she's a close friend of the 1st girl. Eversince i started talking to this 2nd girl, i've applied a lot of kino, humor etc.

So should i just take my chances with the 1st girl whom i really want or just go with the 2nd one?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Being a DJ, you must make your own desicion. I really do hope you well, and if I could give any guidance that has helped me in the past... remember

THE POWER OF DETATCHMENT

Good Luck & God Bless
GateKeeper
 

Oni

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Yes, i've bene repeating that to myself over and over again but its just so hard to accept. BUt it must be done someday..
 

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Originally posted by Oni
With so many things going on lately, i've been so lost and confused. I don't know how i got myself into this situation but here's what's happening. Homecoming is coming soon ( a little bit more than a month) and i have to get myself a date. I know there are lots of dates out there that i can choose from but there's just this girl that i have my eye on. I've known her since 8th grade and from then till 11th we've been friends. But i tried not to fall into the friend zone so over the summer before school started, i didn't talk to her unless she initiates a convo (in which she barely did) This year (12th grade), i don't see her much during school anymore and we seldom talk. We are still friends though .

Here's where it gets harder on me, last year she went to jnr prom with some guy, and that guy is probably going to ask her to homecoming this year. With this little time that i have, how can i compete against a guy who brought her to prom when i have this awkward history with her.

Also, here's where i get extremely frustrated. If somehow she ended up rejecting me, i was just gonna go ask the 2nd girl i have in mind but the thing is, she's a close friend of the 1st girl. Eversince i started talking to this 2nd girl, i've applied a lot of kino, humor etc.

So should i just take my chances with the 1st girl whom i really want or just go with the 2nd one?
ask any random good lookin girl.
its pretty simple
prom is about havin fun not datin.

if you like wearing suits :/
 

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I'm sire glad I don't live in the US, with the whole 'date/prom' thing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oni

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Originally posted by Holland
I'm sire glad I don't live in the US, with the whole 'date/prom' thing.
i think its vital, for it teaches you a lot of stuff. mostly about self confidence etc. BUt ya, i think i got things starighten out
 

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HAHA RAWBLOOD, ITS NOT PROM.........HOMECOMING!!!


Anyways, go with the the 2nd girl, so she doesn't regect you. The first girl will get jelous and make this work to your advantange. Get her extremely jelous. THEN AFTER THIS, do the clubbing techniques in the DJ bible under CLUB. THIS IS GOLD. You'll get her so horny that she'll can't wait to leave with you!!!

LATE CHULO!
 

Oni

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that reminds me, where's the dj bible? it seemed to have gone missing. i need to read up on this =/
 

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throw your balls to the wall and do something man! ur not turing ur trying to hard!
 

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DJ Bible , and as for your problem, just ask her before the other guy does, if you get shot down then it doesnt matter, it was a complement to her, then ask the second girl, who cares if shes friends with her, its not like you slept with the first one
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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