"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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im trying to hit the bullseye .....what is true interest and how does u recognize it?

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Through all our collective knowledge, we should break it down to an almost certainty. Compared to women with all the cosmo magazine sales through the years, they don't know what to do because they go on feelings, which change like the waves of the ocean. But we are more stead fast....for instance, when they text first thing in the morning..you're kinda in already....when they text in the afternoon or any other time....they're bored.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have no idea what you are talking about. Elaborate more.
 

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If she wakes you up at three on the morning so she can have sex with you until the alarm goes off, I'd give her interest level a solid B plus.
 

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OK I'm going to sound like a selfish prick but oh well, shlt happens. Give zero fxcks....
She still wants to bang on her period. NO not tonight but we've done it before what's so different now?... OK fine you brought & made me dinner, and a 6 pack. THANKS! How about a bj?(I didn't ask.....side note) NO...K

Hhhmm is this true interest? I've had plenty of ex's that had no issues during that time of the month. OK fine if it's heavy flow day, I can hold off no worries. Baah not going to analyze this 1 but I might make a mental note.

It's in a woman's nature to go hot/cold. I can't complain too much I got dinner and a six er.
 

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Espi said:
I suggest keeping it really simple. Ask her out. This is when you know if she's truly interested.

She accepts your date invite=interested.

She rejects your date invite=not interested.
this is where i was leaning towards....lol...not the i got food, back rub, fukkked on her red light, still being the king in her world. lol. penis in vagina = interest...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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True interest is leverage.

The more you can do things on your terms without getting push-back.. the higher her interest. The more she follows your lead the higher her interest. The harder she works to keep you're attention and keep you HAPPY the higher her interest.

Imagine how a fat troll would act around you if she had a chance in hell of being with you. That's true interest. :up:
 

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If she follows through on things WITH YOU. If you're f**king her. Anything else is fluffy bullsh*t.

Case closed.
 
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