"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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im trying to hit the bullseye .....what is true interest and how does u recognize it?

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Through all our collective knowledge, we should break it down to an almost certainty. Compared to women with all the cosmo magazine sales through the years, they don't know what to do because they go on feelings, which change like the waves of the ocean. But we are more stead fast....for instance, when they text first thing in the morning..you're kinda in already....when they text in the afternoon or any other time....they're bored.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have no idea what you are talking about. Elaborate more.
 

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If she wakes you up at three on the morning so she can have sex with you until the alarm goes off, I'd give her interest level a solid B plus.
 

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OK I'm going to sound like a selfish prick but oh well, shlt happens. Give zero fxcks....
She still wants to bang on her period. NO not tonight but we've done it before what's so different now?... OK fine you brought & made me dinner, and a 6 pack. THANKS! How about a bj?(I didn't ask.....side note) NO...K

Hhhmm is this true interest? I've had plenty of ex's that had no issues during that time of the month. OK fine if it's heavy flow day, I can hold off no worries. Baah not going to analyze this 1 but I might make a mental note.

It's in a woman's nature to go hot/cold. I can't complain too much I got dinner and a six er.
 

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Espi said:
I suggest keeping it really simple. Ask her out. This is when you know if she's truly interested.

She accepts your date invite=interested.

She rejects your date invite=not interested.
this is where i was leaning towards....lol...not the i got food, back rub, fukkked on her red light, still being the king in her world. lol. penis in vagina = interest...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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True interest is leverage.

The more you can do things on your terms without getting push-back.. the higher her interest. The more she follows your lead the higher her interest. The harder she works to keep you're attention and keep you HAPPY the higher her interest.

Imagine how a fat troll would act around you if she had a chance in hell of being with you. That's true interest. :up:
 

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If she follows through on things WITH YOU. If you're f**king her. Anything else is fluffy bullsh*t.

Case closed.
 
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