I'm trying to decide if I should text her

[Lycosa]

Hello . I'm new here , so I will introduce myself . My name is Andrew , I'm 24 yo and I'm in a big dilemma . 2 weeks ago , I met a girl at a wedding I attendend as a technician luminist . She smiled at me at first , and that gaved me the courage to make a move . I introduced myself , and we talked . Fast forward , we had coffee and we ate cake from the same plate and I asked her if she liked our first date , and if she wants a second date , she will pick the place . She laughed , I asked for her number and she gave it to me . I texted her right before I went to sleep in the morning that I can't wait for our second date . Since then , I asked her 2 times for a date and she always tell me that she is busy . For the last 3 days , I stopped contacting her and she didn't text me at all . This morning , she added me on Facebook , but still no text from her . My question is : should I keep going with the ignoring part , or I should text her on Facebook since she added me ?


I forgot to mention : she told me in these texts we had that we should meet up and get to know each other better , but those 2 invites were declined with the excuse that she is busy .

 

[dustmuffin]

Move on she isn't interested.

 

[RangerMIke]

She's not interested. You did your job as a man, you asked her out... she balked... too busy and didn't counter. You are done, move onto the next one. If you keep trying you will only look pathetic. Go get other girls. If she reaches out again, try to make a date, if she says no, then thank her for reaching out and move onto the next one.

 

[MrJack]

I agree with @dustmuffin the most you could do right now and SHOULD do right now is just keep with the no contact and spin other plates. If she contacts you to hangout eventually then maybe she really was busy, but doesn't seem likely. Either way make sure your Facebook gives off the vibe you're a sociable guy that actually has a life, as it's possible she just wanted to creep on your profile to get an idea about that.

But definitely don't give this girl anymore time in your brain lol

 

[dude99]

Hello . I'm new here , so I will introduce myself . My name is Andrew , I'm 24 yo and I'm in a big dilemma . 2 weeks ago , I met a girl at a wedding I attendend as a technician luminist . She smiled at me at first , and that gaved me the courage to make a move . I introduced myself , and we talked . Fast forward , we had coffee and we ate cake from the same plate and I asked her if she liked our first date , and if she wants a second date , she will pick the place . She laughed , I asked for her number and she gave it to me . I texted her right before I went to sleep in the morning that I can't wait for our second date . Since then , I asked her 2 times for a date and she always tell me that she is busy . For the last 3 days , I stopped contacting her and she didn't text me at all . This morning , she added me on Facebook , but still no text from her . My question is : should I keep going with the ignoring part , or I should text her on Facebook since she added me ?


I forgot to mention : she told me in these texts we had that we should meet up and get to know each other better , but those 2 invites were declined with the excuse that she is busy .

Don't add her on facebook. She only wants to increase her friend count and add yet another orbiter which will feed her ego.

Stop texting all together. She isn't interested. If she hasn't texted back then don't waste anymore time on her.

Denying her friend request on facebook may lead to bread crumbs and her faking some interest. Don't feed it.

Go after new women

 

[nismo-4]

Delete, not interested.

Case closed.