"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm too cute

BongDuy

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I'm 19 and I've got a baby face. I'm 5'6'' and look awkward with facial hair, so i always shave. This means I don't look like a 12 year old, but I don't look my age.
I've noticed that almost every girl I meet tells me how cute I am. It would be great, but I'm pretty sure 95% of them mean it in an "adorable puppy" way.

The way I see it is that It's not exactly a negative thing. Girls tend to be very playful with me, but I find that I easily get thrown into the friendzone, or into the Boyfriend zone. I can't really hook up and get laid as easily as much as I want to.

I was wondering what you guys would suggest? As of now, I'm working on kino and just getting used to touching and playfully touching women. I don't really understand how to verbally be sexual yet, and i feel like sexual inneuendos are so damn cheesy, like...
Girl: my lips are soo dry
Guy: I can totally help you out with that *smart ass smile*


I'm trying to get more built, so hopefully that helps me look a little older or more mature.
Any general advice? I've realized that In college, when alcohol is involved, it becomes very easy to hook up and get laid, but im looking for sober advice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HolyG

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BongDuy said:
I'm trying to get more built, so hopefully that helps me look a little older or more mature.
Any general advice? I've realized that In college, when alcohol is involved, it becomes very easy to hook up and get laid, but im looking for sober advice.

You already know. Go to Health and Fitness forum. Lift!!! Work on deepening your voice (google alpha male voice resonator). Good luck
 

AAAgent

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I have one too. i've always been skinny but i do have some puffy cheeks and i look a lot younger than i am. I'm 23 almost 24 and i still get carded for cigarettes (when i was smoking). I actually don't mind. I'd rather have a baby face than a ugly face. Even with my baby face, i've managed to secure a decent amount of women, break some necks, and have a few try to jump me (literally).

A few pluses i have that you don't are height, i'm 5'11. Another one being size, i was always in shape/muscular. I didn't socialize too much in college because i tried to focus on my studies, and girls would try to find ways to approach/talk to me on campus because they didn't see me at other places. I was never really available to them, not sure if that's a good thing or bad thing but it worked for me.
 

novaknight

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Lift weights?
Best idea I can give to a little guy.

If you're tall like me (which you're not), simply use your height to create a commanding presence (which I'm trying to learn to do)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bryce556

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i have a similar problem, i do get my fair share but i get the "cute" from girls alot more then anything. just last night a fer older older girls maybe in 30's walked up to me and both kissed me on the cheek saying how adorable i am..... im 5'6" and 20 and i look like im 15 apparently. i can get alot of similes and not many negitive reactions but not many girl acually hard on check me out. ive been lifting to gain weight as well.
 
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