"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"i'm to tired"

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When my g/f tells me she is to tired at 12:30 am to mess around after our date is over. she does have a good excuse she gets up at 6am to go to work. but its the weekend, still i feel turned down..am i being selfish?

how should i be reacting to this? i feel if she really wanted me she would have gotten over her being tired.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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inzone50 said:
When my g/f tells me she is to tired at 12:30 am to mess around after our date is over. she does have a good excuse she gets up at 6am to go to work. but its the weekend, still i feel turned down..am i being selfish?

how should i be reacting to this? i feel if she really wanted me she would have gotten over her being tired.
well, i am getting older over here and i am in bed most nights before 12:30 am and i dont get up until 7.
perhaps you should try earlier and not wait until bed time?
 

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i didn't ask her. she said do you mind if we call it a night. I just so tired.

Earlier she was fine though.

So should i be mad or what?:trouble:
 

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Try getting together earlier then, you fool.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rollo Tomassi

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welcome to married life,..ehr,..wait, this is your girlfriend you say?

Let me explain something to you from a married man's perspective. I can be sleeping in the deepest depths of REM sleep and on the very off chance my wife were to come home from her shift at the hospital to wake me at 2am saying "honey, I'm horny, lets fukk?" rest assured, I would be awake, stiff, ready to go at a moments notice and rearing to hit it again right after the first time. When a person wants to fukk, they'll find a way to fukk, and sleep deprivation will be the smallest inconvenience they'd consider.

After 11 years of marriage I can honestly tell you that "i'm tired" means "I'm not into fukking you tonight" every time. It's like a LJBF for married people.
 

The Juan and only

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It's not necessarily anything to worry about. Sometimes people just aren't in the mood for sex (*gasp*).

However, if this was after a "date", then what the heck were you doing. She should've been all hornied up.
 
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