"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm thinking this is a good sign

Jokerlsk

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As of late I've pretty much just said "Fvck it" to anything and everything related to girls. I'm going to school, having fun with my friends, and enjoying myself. Screw these insecurities we all have towards women. Why should I let what a girl thinks affect myself? Besides the point, there's this one girl i've been talking to lately, and she's pretty cool. She's a year younger than me, and in my sister's grade. They actually have a class together and are kind of friends. Today, while i was driving my sister and myself home, she mentioned that the girl i'm interested in was talking about me. Apparently this girl was asking about me, and told my sister she thinks i'm hilarious. I'm not going to read into this very much, but i have a feeling this is a good indicator of interest. Right?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sounds like a good sign to me brah sounds like you got a good mindset.
 
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