"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm thinking this is a good sign

Jokerlsk

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As of late I've pretty much just said "Fvck it" to anything and everything related to girls. I'm going to school, having fun with my friends, and enjoying myself. Screw these insecurities we all have towards women. Why should I let what a girl thinks affect myself? Besides the point, there's this one girl i've been talking to lately, and she's pretty cool. She's a year younger than me, and in my sister's grade. They actually have a class together and are kind of friends. Today, while i was driving my sister and myself home, she mentioned that the girl i'm interested in was talking about me. Apparently this girl was asking about me, and told my sister she thinks i'm hilarious. I'm not going to read into this very much, but i have a feeling this is a good indicator of interest. Right?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds like a good sign to me brah sounds like you got a good mindset.
 
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