"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Im thinking of getting a dog.

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I'm thinking of getting one to tag along with me on my daily walks around the neighborhood and parks.

What do you guys recommend?

Should I volunteer at an animal shelter first? Or should I get one at a pet shop?

What are the best breeds that's good to take on walks and behaves great indoors and outdoors?

Thanks and cheers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you have the time and space I'd say go for it, it's a nice companionship to have. I have a friend who have German Shepard and he's amazing, really intelligent, protective and loyal dog.
 

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Having a dog isn't something you do on a whim. If you get a pup or young one, you have an average of a 12 year commitment ahead of you.

Once you are certain, go to an animal shelter and take your time. If you see one and feel a certain bonding, go from there.
 

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dogs are cool. All the stuff that are good everyone knows. I always and do have them.

some negatives.
a. time, it is a live creature with a mind. even if you don't feel like it, still should be taken care of.
b. travel, going overnight or for a week to a place that doesn't like dogs. have to find a dog sitter to care for him or a friend. either way, another thing to do when travel.
c. have a yard with nice plants and decorated.. Add a puppy or older dog of some breeds and that yard will look different really fast.

If you don't have time to spend always with the dog, get two so they can play together.

think about your space, small dog fits in a small space. a big dog likes big space.

read up on the different types, some can tolerate different things. some breed will attack everything, others nothing...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Working breeds like the gsd especially need a job, or else they will find one for themselves, like barking nonstop or destroying everything you own. I will probably always own one, but I can spend time with the dog and not lock it in an apartment all day. If you work a 9 to 5 and no one is there to care for the dog during the day, an older, docile shelter dog would make you much happier.
 

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I'll echo what others said, any kind of animal is a commitment, dogs especially because they need to be let out.

Shelter dogs can be great, or they can be terrible. I have friends that got one and they turned out to be nervous wrecks that will piss themselves at the first noise they don't like, or they can hate a specific gender that they have a traumatic experience with, or they can bark all day and night. volunteering at a shelter is a good way to get an idea for a dog's temperament and not pick a nutcase.

Personally, I would go for a breed because you can expect a certain level of intelligence and temperament. Some breeds are also prone to health problems, which you should screen for.

As for breed recommendations, you should specify where you live, how much room you have available. I'm partial to larger dogs but I don't live in a place where that is either yard size or space to have one.

If you get a puppy, you'll get tail. Women love puppies, except in covid times that might not work. Although this is not a reason to get a dog, just a plus.
 
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