"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Im thinking of getting a dog.

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I'm thinking of getting one to tag along with me on my daily walks around the neighborhood and parks.

What do you guys recommend?

Should I volunteer at an animal shelter first? Or should I get one at a pet shop?

What are the best breeds that's good to take on walks and behaves great indoors and outdoors?

Thanks and cheers.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you have the time and space I'd say go for it, it's a nice companionship to have. I have a friend who have German Shepard and he's amazing, really intelligent, protective and loyal dog.
 

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Having a dog isn't something you do on a whim. If you get a pup or young one, you have an average of a 12 year commitment ahead of you.

Once you are certain, go to an animal shelter and take your time. If you see one and feel a certain bonding, go from there.
 

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dogs are cool. All the stuff that are good everyone knows. I always and do have them.

some negatives.
a. time, it is a live creature with a mind. even if you don't feel like it, still should be taken care of.
b. travel, going overnight or for a week to a place that doesn't like dogs. have to find a dog sitter to care for him or a friend. either way, another thing to do when travel.
c. have a yard with nice plants and decorated.. Add a puppy or older dog of some breeds and that yard will look different really fast.

If you don't have time to spend always with the dog, get two so they can play together.

think about your space, small dog fits in a small space. a big dog likes big space.

read up on the different types, some can tolerate different things. some breed will attack everything, others nothing...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Working breeds like the gsd especially need a job, or else they will find one for themselves, like barking nonstop or destroying everything you own. I will probably always own one, but I can spend time with the dog and not lock it in an apartment all day. If you work a 9 to 5 and no one is there to care for the dog during the day, an older, docile shelter dog would make you much happier.
 

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I'll echo what others said, any kind of animal is a commitment, dogs especially because they need to be let out.

Shelter dogs can be great, or they can be terrible. I have friends that got one and they turned out to be nervous wrecks that will piss themselves at the first noise they don't like, or they can hate a specific gender that they have a traumatic experience with, or they can bark all day and night. volunteering at a shelter is a good way to get an idea for a dog's temperament and not pick a nutcase.

Personally, I would go for a breed because you can expect a certain level of intelligence and temperament. Some breeds are also prone to health problems, which you should screen for.

As for breed recommendations, you should specify where you live, how much room you have available. I'm partial to larger dogs but I don't live in a place where that is either yard size or space to have one.

If you get a puppy, you'll get tail. Women love puppies, except in covid times that might not work. Although this is not a reason to get a dog, just a plus.
 
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