"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm talking to a Military Veteran girl

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- She's 39 years old Disabled and medically retired like me at 100% p and t just like me. If we can get married our combined income would surpassed 100 grand a month

- She's Schizophrenic but her symptoms for those went away because of her meds and she takes medication for depression.
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- She's been involved with a one hook up and a ten year relationship while in the Army, her boyfriend dumped her when she started showing her symptoms.

- She's a teacher and does not like her job.

- She's white and her step dad was a baptist preacher.

- She told me she'd settle down in South East Asia with me and she loves Asian culture

- I'm talking to other women besides her but she's always the one whose open to talking to me during middle of the day when I look at the girls whose open for a texting conversation.

- Something is telling me this chick rode the carousel and just trying to appear innocent. You tell me based on the picture lol

- Just felt like posting this.

- Lol...Look at the picture brothers and feel its aura....Do you honestly think this chick is as innocent as she seems and haven't rode the carousel yet?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You’re talking about getting married to that for income?
 

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Action.

When you gonna hit it????

She's white

I thought she was a afro native American ebony ghetto queen. My eyes let me down I geuss.

When you gonna hit it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i don't know. if like how she looks. if you like how she feels. if you like how she acts. if you enjoy her. sure... give it a shot.
 

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OP I give you props for admitting to this...this would be one of those we can't be seen in public situations for me if I were to entertain her in any way :rofl:
 

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- She's 39 years old Disabled and medically retired like me at 100% p and t just like me. If we can get married our combined income would surpassed 100 grand a month

- She's Schizophrenic but her symptoms for those went away because of her meds and she takes medication for depression.
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- She's been involved with a one hook up and a ten year relationship while in the Army, her boyfriend dumped her when she started showing her symptoms.

- She's a teacher and does not like her job.

- She's white and her step dad was a baptist preacher.

- She told me she'd settle down in South East Asia with me and she loves Asian culture

- I'm talking to other women besides her but she's always the one whose open to talking to me during middle of the day when I look at the girls whose open for a texting conversation.

- Something is telling me this chick rode the carousel and just trying to appear innocent. You tell me based on the picture lol

- Just felt like posting this.

- Lol...Look at the picture brothers and feel its aura....Do you honestly think this chick is as innocent as she seems and haven't rode the carousel yet?
Sounds more promising than handing control of a nation's treasury department over to The Ndrangheta. Wishing you both a long, happy live together
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I mean... The Army COULD BE different from the Marines, but I'll be honest. I've only met two BAMs that were probably not doing that. Also, I've met four (out of the ones I saw on deployments) who never got pregnant to either avoid a deployment or got that way in country and got an early ticket home. hehe. Even then, they had a lot of 'fun.' More fun than someone should have in a vacation spot that rates just above hell.

I will say this though... If she looks like a smoke show in camouflage utilities she looks even better in civvies and probably looks like a cherub in birthday attire. Unless of course she's braiding hair in places you didn't know about. Take what I say with a grain of salt, but I am highly skeptical of any veteran who would make a claim that she hasn't done that.

If you actually do wind up hooking up with her, you may be able to tell if she's done a lot. She doesn't look convincing enough to me though. I've seen ones almost look like wookies and men overlook that when the male to female ratio is roughly 90+ / 1. Think beer goggles are bad? Try deployment goggles. On base is almost worse. Just ask any Corpsman about how many cases of green goolies it took them seeing before becoming jaded to them.
 

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I’m still talking to her. Smart girl and ambitious. Just got promoted in her job and wants to start a business lol. Are these things relationships killers? lol
 

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Hey man, if she's that, you pop wood without effort and ya'll have fun and keep drama to a minimum, I'm happy for ya!
 

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Hey man, if she's that, you pop wood without effort and ya'll have fun and keep drama to a minimum, I'm happy for ya!
Thanks bro...maybe you can help me out get in Marine shape sometime. I can't even do one pull up...do you know what type of exercises I should be doing? I'm age 40 now...so something age appropriate would work. How many push ups do you do a day by the way? Just wondering
 

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Hey man, if she's that, you pop wood without effort and ya'll have fun and keep drama to a minimum, I'm happy for ya!
Oh yeah....just wondering, was that last week in The Marine Corps where you had to march a long hellish trail and salute the flag one of the most tired and proud moment of your life? Are you a combat Vet? Did you have more tiring moments than that especially while out deployed?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some of the worst days were training. Didn't have too many moments when I was strung out AF on a deployment, but it did happen. Usually because of a vehicle problem. Then hauling @ass on foot and then sitting around for hours b1tching because we could have leisurely strolled to get there. lol

As far as pullups, you want to involve your entire shoulder. Any rowing exercise where you pull rather than push is a good way to prepare for pullups. There are also counter-weighted assisted pullups if you use machines. I'd START in the up position and just hold that as long as you possibly can and "fight" it all the way down when your body can't hold the position anymore. Then when your elbows lock out, drop down. Rest for at least 2-3minutes and do it two more times. Once you can do like 5 of these "negatives" without a counterweight, you should at least be able to do 1-3 pullups.

As far as pushups, I don't really overdo it with one kind. I'll do pushups using a bosu ball, I'll switch to pike ups, pseudo pushups, wide grip, etc. I also try inverted push press while my heels are on a wall. I'm 41.
 
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