Poonani Maker
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Are they lesbian or are they just overly friendly smootchie girly girls?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm sure you've seen many women do this
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Are they lesbian or are they just overly friendly smootchie girly girls?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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That's not a club, that's a high school dance or a ho down. They aren't even doing anything more than posing. and its not even a sexual pose.Poonani Maker said:in clubs/bars. Maybe they lick each others ears or act like they're going down on each other's crotch.
Are they lesbian or are they just overly friendly smootchie girly girls?
Why did you make this thread????
That photo is quite tame IMO, but I know what you're referring to. It's Attention wh0ring + lipstick lesbian (because it's trendy to be bi).
I know a lot of real lesbians. They're definitely not girly girls. They have a look that range from unisex to "Bubba's sister with a 12" cl!t".
I know a lot of real lesbians. They're definitely not girly girls. They have a look that range from unisex to "Bubba's sister with a 12" cl!t".
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Are they? You decide.
Maybe
Probably
Yes
Yes Definately
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Well for one thing, women in general are just more okay with getting physical and pseudo-sexual with each other's bodies than men are. But I think most women who do that crap at the bars and in front of the camera are just desperate to be seen as "hot" by guys, desperate for attention. They know that guys find that sh1t fvcking hot, and they wanna be the hottest chick in the room. So like the little attention wh0res that they are, they'll dry hump each other for male attention.
I think the whole "I'm into other chicks" is something that some girls turn to when they don't feel as sexy as they used to. So they try to ramp up their sexy points by saying stuff like "ooh, I'd do her" or "watch me make out with that hot blonde chick!"
I think the whole "I'm into other chicks" is something that some girls turn to when they don't feel as sexy as they used to. So they try to ramp up their sexy points by saying stuff like "ooh, I'd do her" or "watch me make out with that hot blonde chick!"
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Dude this looks like 2 girls that are friends, and wanted to take a picture.. you need to quit over thinking.Poonani Maker said:in clubs/bars. Maybe they lick each others ears or act like they're going down on each other's crotch.
Are they lesbian or are they just overly friendly smootchie girly girls?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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OK I'm wondering has anyone ever called out two girls for doing a pseudo-lesbian act (such as grinding on each other, making out, etc), like calling them desperate, bored, etc? If so, how did that turn out?
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...if your questioning them being lesbian then you still haven't got an understanding of female psyche.
This is common and is done to pump each other's state. All of this is to have the energy swirling through them and so they do this. The reason they do this mainly with girls because the chicks don't want anything from each other so it's
"Ok".
In my acting school two chicks played a lesbian role on film and they were really on each other as if they were lesbians. They was going to makeout, but since it was an unexpected change and they didn't have no "alone" time to practice, one of them kissed the chicks neck. After that though we were on the elevator and they were doing it and having fun.
I really think all chicks are bi but that's just a generalization. What your seeing is NOTHING to a chick. If you've ever hung out with a group of chicks you'd see how they act.
Already you should notice your own mindset just by this post. You're looking into the interaction and worrying about it so much. This is what chicks DON'T want, they also don't want to be judged.
This is why most guys don't experience this, and which is why they don't have interactions that some people would consider bizarre. A good example of this would be something that happened recently to me. I don't remember what was said but the gist of it was me and 2 chicks jokingly talking about fuking on the sidewalk. All of a sudden we were jumping and grabbing on each other...it didn't mean nothing though, it was just pure fun.
This is common and is done to pump each other's state. All of this is to have the energy swirling through them and so they do this. The reason they do this mainly with girls because the chicks don't want anything from each other so it's
"Ok".
In my acting school two chicks played a lesbian role on film and they were really on each other as if they were lesbians. They was going to makeout, but since it was an unexpected change and they didn't have no "alone" time to practice, one of them kissed the chicks neck. After that though we were on the elevator and they were doing it and having fun.
I really think all chicks are bi but that's just a generalization. What your seeing is NOTHING to a chick. If you've ever hung out with a group of chicks you'd see how they act.
Already you should notice your own mindset just by this post. You're looking into the interaction and worrying about it so much. This is what chicks DON'T want, they also don't want to be judged.
This is why most guys don't experience this, and which is why they don't have interactions that some people would consider bizarre. A good example of this would be something that happened recently to me. I don't remember what was said but the gist of it was me and 2 chicks jokingly talking about fuking on the sidewalk. All of a sudden we were jumping and grabbing on each other...it didn't mean nothing though, it was just pure fun.
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i would have to say no to all of those.Poonani Maker said:Maybe
Probably
Most likely
+ i have yet to see a hot lesbian.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Women are just like that. Get used to it. There is no explanation, they are freaks.