"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm sure you've seen many women do this

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in clubs/bars. Maybe they lick each others ears or act like they're going down on each other's crotch.
Are they lesbian or are they just overly friendly smootchie girly girls?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Poonani Maker said:
in clubs/bars. Maybe they lick each others ears or act like they're going down on each other's crotch.
Are they lesbian or are they just overly friendly smootchie girly girls?
That's not a club, that's a high school dance or a ho down. They aren't even doing anything more than posing. and its not even a sexual pose.

Why did you make this thread????
 

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That photo is quite tame IMO, but I know what you're referring to. It's Attention wh0ring + lipstick lesbian (because it's trendy to be bi).

I know a lot of real lesbians. They're definitely not girly girls. They have a look that range from unisex to "Bubba's sister with a 12" cl!t".
 

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Are they? You decide.
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Yes Definately
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well for one thing, women in general are just more okay with getting physical and pseudo-sexual with each other's bodies than men are. But I think most women who do that crap at the bars and in front of the camera are just desperate to be seen as "hot" by guys, desperate for attention. They know that guys find that sh1t fvcking hot, and they wanna be the hottest chick in the room. So like the little attention wh0res that they are, they'll dry hump each other for male attention.

I think the whole "I'm into other chicks" is something that some girls turn to when they don't feel as sexy as they used to. So they try to ramp up their sexy points by saying stuff like "ooh, I'd do her" or "watch me make out with that hot blonde chick!"
 

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I can't count how many times I've seen a train of girls walk through a club holding hands and going to the bathroom together.
 

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I have to agree they just do it for attention...nothing more, there might be a few exceptions..but mostly attention...lol
 

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Poonani Maker said:
in clubs/bars. Maybe they lick each others ears or act like they're going down on each other's crotch.
Are they lesbian or are they just overly friendly smootchie girly girls?
Dude this looks like 2 girls that are friends, and wanted to take a picture.. you need to quit over thinking.
 

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LOL, you know what I think when I see 2 chicks making out?

Put them into a room with a lesbian ex-convict/rugby player. And see what REALLY happens when she gets some REAL lesbian lovin' haha.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OK I'm wondering has anyone ever called out two girls for doing a pseudo-lesbian act (such as grinding on each other, making out, etc), like calling them desperate, bored, etc? If so, how did that turn out?
 

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...if your questioning them being lesbian then you still haven't got an understanding of female psyche.

This is common and is done to pump each other's state. All of this is to have the energy swirling through them and so they do this. The reason they do this mainly with girls because the chicks don't want anything from each other so it's
"Ok".

In my acting school two chicks played a lesbian role on film and they were really on each other as if they were lesbians. They was going to makeout, but since it was an unexpected change and they didn't have no "alone" time to practice, one of them kissed the chicks neck. After that though we were on the elevator and they were doing it and having fun.

I really think all chicks are bi but that's just a generalization. What your seeing is NOTHING to a chick. If you've ever hung out with a group of chicks you'd see how they act.

Already you should notice your own mindset just by this post. You're looking into the interaction and worrying about it so much. This is what chicks DON'T want, they also don't want to be judged.

This is why most guys don't experience this, and which is why they don't have interactions that some people would consider bizarre. A good example of this would be something that happened recently to me. I don't remember what was said but the gist of it was me and 2 chicks jokingly talking about fuking on the sidewalk. All of a sudden we were jumping and grabbing on each other...it didn't mean nothing though, it was just pure fun.
 

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Lol SP, imagine a buddy of yours trying to make out with you!
...don't mean nothing - it;s just pure fun, right?
 

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Maybe
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Most likely
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Maybe
Probably
Most likely
i would have to say no to all of those.
+ i have yet to see a hot lesbian.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women are just like that. Get used to it. There is no explanation, they are freaks.
 

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er... what?
 
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