"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm still stuck in AFC mode. HELP!

insanity

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i think alot of single fathers haven't accepted the facts that women don't need men as much as we think. alot of fathers talk about how much they love their kids but i think some of them use their kids to get any chance to see their ex only because they haven't moved on. i noticed alot of single fathers on the forum talk about their exs and when they are told to move on or grow some ballz there excuse is always about she's the mother of my child and i would like to get along with her for our child. who is it really for though. the childs benefit or themselves.

a good friend of mine finally seen the full picture. he has a child with a woman and whenever she came to pick up her kid he would always make dinner for her and he went out of his way for her because deep down inside he was still in love with her and in return he got nothing but how she met a new great guy and all the stuff. when he met someone new he stopped cooking her dinner and all that stuff and now he could care less about what the mother does. he is a great dad and when his woman drops the kid off thats it he says ok see ya later.

it must be difficult though to be a single father though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KarmaSutra said:
One truism I've learned is that women of substance think that men who raise thier kids to be the best li'l DJ's and DJ-etts are the HOTTEST and most alpha men they can bless thier lucky stars to be involved with.

I have a twelve year old who is the light of my life and whom I raise with prosperity and dignity in herself. She won't need to validate herself to any guy, especially AFC losers.

Bingo.
 

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insanity said:
i think alot of single fathers haven't accepted the facts that women don't need men as much as we think. alot of fathers talk about how much they love their kids but i think some of them use their kids to get any chance to see their ex only because they haven't moved on. i noticed alot of single fathers on the forum talk about their exs and when they are told to move on or grow some ballz there excuse is always about she's the mother of my child and i would like to get along with her for our child. who is it really for though. the childs benefit or themselves.

a good friend of mine finally seen the full picture. he has a child with a woman and whenever she came to pick up her kid he would always make dinner for her and he went out of his way for her because deep down inside he was still in love with her and in return he got nothing but how she met a new great guy and all the stuff. when he met someone new he stopped cooking her dinner and all that stuff and now he could care less about what the mother does. he is a great dad and when his woman drops the kid off thats it he says ok see ya later.

it must be difficult though to be a single father though.
Bingo... it is tough being a single father, but I'm doing it, and everyday, I grow stronger as an individual.

I'm on the path now. ty
 
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