Im sorry but...

[SinJester]

Being attractive has NOTHING to do with what you look like.

 

[ItsOnNow]

It doesnt? then why do I see all these people with each other, have been for years, the more masculine looking men. look at this:http://boston.craigslist.org/nos/cas/763139795.html

 

[[S]alvatore]

I cant help it. I am naturally curious.

Honestly if you were naturally curious you would be out there, talking to people, talking to girls, asking them questions about themselves, finding out stuff about people. And if you feel that bad about the way you look honestly, go out, work, save money for surgery. Do not tell me for one second that you can't do that. If you refuse to do this, you are weak, and you don't really want all things you say you are missing out on. Fu<king get off your ass and do something about it, no more whinging and complaining. The sh!t is in your control, you either stay a loser in life, or you get out there and become a winner. I cannot stand negative <unts like you, all I want to do is belt some fu<king sense into those thick domes of yours. You're wasting your life, go out and make something of it.

 

[Interceptor]

ION,
you have to realoze that what you are 'protecting' now is not worth protecting.

The life you live now is not fulfilling and happy.
Thus, if we use logic, there is no valid reason for you to keep supporting this unhealthy lifestyle.

Since you are too afraid to 'lose' something, you do not venture out of your Comfort Zone, thus keeping you where you are.

But what youre missing out on is much better than what you have now.

By staying in your comfort zone you are sacrificing growth and experience.

You can only relate to past negative expereinces, and your own perception filter YOU HAVE CREATED in your mind, and are NOT creating NEW experiences.
Since you are not creating new experiences, you are constantly reflecitng back on negative ones as your entire world outlook. So of course, you assume that the world out there is the SAME as what you have created in your mind.

You have created your own Prison.

You come here crying to be let free.

But you dont realize is that YOURE THE ONE WHO HAS LOCKED THE DOOR AND HAS THE KEY.


Even though you think youre protecting yourself from harm, you are HARMING YOURSELF worse than you realize.

At this point in time I have to recommend that you go seek a therapist.

YOU NEED COUNSELING.

Get off the internet and go ask for help from a professional.


Sorry.

We're done here.

We cannot help you anymore than this.

GO and get help.