"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm sooooo clueless it's ridiculous. Help me lay this chick

KossHP

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I'll try and make this as short as possible

- I got a # from a chick who gave me long EC. Got the # after only talking about school, so not sure what kinda rapport I have with her.

- Called her maybe 3 days after I got the # on a Sunday to talk a bit more. She was doing work and said she'd call me back. She never did.

- She texted me today saying Sorry her phone was dead up until today (wed). And what was going on with me

- I text back 45mins later syaing I was studying for a quiz and whats up with her.

At this point can I invite her for a movie @ my dorm(not sure about the rapport I have), and if she says no, does that mess up future chances. Or should I ask her to go to a movie @ a theatre tommorow or something

Any thoughts/ideas..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

The Inside Man

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One thing I didn't do until my senior year of college, which I kind of regret, is not using the movie line more often. At least in my college town, "dates" didn;t really happen that often, but movie night or going out for a few drinks did. I think it's great because as long as you have some rapport and attraction, you weed out the ones who are interested in you from the start and show that you are a no BS guy.

Think about it: You might be able to make out with her at the movie theater but you're taking her out away from the ultimate destination-your dorm bed. Much easier for her to come over and chill and watch a movie. Got a futon? lol
 

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also girls will routinely not call back even if they are still interested in the beginning. "the rules", cosmo, and some other dumb **** like that tells them not to. Also a coffe/smoothie first date isn;t a bad idea if youre not sure about rapport, but I like the more direct route usually.
 
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