"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm sooooo clueless it's ridiculous. Help me lay this chick

KossHP

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I'll try and make this as short as possible

- I got a # from a chick who gave me long EC. Got the # after only talking about school, so not sure what kinda rapport I have with her.

- Called her maybe 3 days after I got the # on a Sunday to talk a bit more. She was doing work and said she'd call me back. She never did.

- She texted me today saying Sorry her phone was dead up until today (wed). And what was going on with me

- I text back 45mins later syaing I was studying for a quiz and whats up with her.

At this point can I invite her for a movie @ my dorm(not sure about the rapport I have), and if she says no, does that mess up future chances. Or should I ask her to go to a movie @ a theatre tommorow or something

Any thoughts/ideas..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Inside Man

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One thing I didn't do until my senior year of college, which I kind of regret, is not using the movie line more often. At least in my college town, "dates" didn;t really happen that often, but movie night or going out for a few drinks did. I think it's great because as long as you have some rapport and attraction, you weed out the ones who are interested in you from the start and show that you are a no BS guy.

Think about it: You might be able to make out with her at the movie theater but you're taking her out away from the ultimate destination-your dorm bed. Much easier for her to come over and chill and watch a movie. Got a futon? lol
 

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also girls will routinely not call back even if they are still interested in the beginning. "the rules", cosmo, and some other dumb **** like that tells them not to. Also a coffe/smoothie first date isn;t a bad idea if youre not sure about rapport, but I like the more direct route usually.
 
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