"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm sooooo clueless it's ridiculous. Help me lay this chick

KossHP

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I'll try and make this as short as possible

- I got a # from a chick who gave me long EC. Got the # after only talking about school, so not sure what kinda rapport I have with her.

- Called her maybe 3 days after I got the # on a Sunday to talk a bit more. She was doing work and said she'd call me back. She never did.

- She texted me today saying Sorry her phone was dead up until today (wed). And what was going on with me

- I text back 45mins later syaing I was studying for a quiz and whats up with her.

At this point can I invite her for a movie @ my dorm(not sure about the rapport I have), and if she says no, does that mess up future chances. Or should I ask her to go to a movie @ a theatre tommorow or something

Any thoughts/ideas..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Inside Man

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One thing I didn't do until my senior year of college, which I kind of regret, is not using the movie line more often. At least in my college town, "dates" didn;t really happen that often, but movie night or going out for a few drinks did. I think it's great because as long as you have some rapport and attraction, you weed out the ones who are interested in you from the start and show that you are a no BS guy.

Think about it: You might be able to make out with her at the movie theater but you're taking her out away from the ultimate destination-your dorm bed. Much easier for her to come over and chill and watch a movie. Got a futon? lol
 

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also girls will routinely not call back even if they are still interested in the beginning. "the rules", cosmo, and some other dumb **** like that tells them not to. Also a coffe/smoothie first date isn;t a bad idea if youre not sure about rapport, but I like the more direct route usually.
 
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