"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm so horny I think I'm about to rape somebody/thing.

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This is getting out of control. I am so horny, I don't even understand. I have been lurking around this board for quite sometime without registering ... but nothing is hapening. I'm still a virgin, I'm still scared to approach strangers, and I'm still frustrated.

It's like a vicious circle, the more I'm horny, the more I'm desperate, and the less chances I can get. WHAT THE FUKK!!!!!!

I try focusing on other areas in my life, but how is that possible when you only think about women, p#ssy and fukking in your head?

Somebody please help me before I go hump a vacuum cleaner.


Vagina
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
Have a wank

I've been doing that multiple times per day, every day of the week. Guess what, STILL HORNY.



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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
I would help you but for that you would have to get a decent screen name :p

This is not a joke, I really need help.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wank till you can wank no more. Then go out. Don't try and pick up women to get laid. Try and pick up women for your own selfconfidence. Make convos or get their number.
 

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I never understood the whole rape thing. If a girls not into the sex then whats the point? your ****s in your hand your ****s in a vagina............. if the girl isn't getting into it its the same as wanking.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I never understood the whole rape thing. If a girls not into the sex then whats the point? your ****s in your hand your ****s in a vagina............. if the girl isn't getting into it its the same as wanking.

Ninja out
99.9% of the time, it's a domination thing and believe it or not, has little to do with a man being too horny. Date rape is a different story, but the rape's that happen on the streets..etc... are predatory in nature, and are all about power and control... it's sick.

A guy who isn't screwed in the head would probably go out and get a prostitute before he ever considered rape. If you really are that frustrated, go buy it. (not that I ever have)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Bulk up man or cut up

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18040

That's very important. If you look good women will **** you. You don't even have to be a DJ. I mean, even I get layed pretty easy.

I've been working out for close to 5 years now, although my training hasn't been serious for the past 2 years, I am still ok I guess.

Honestly, I have been considering paying a prostitute, but I refuse to pay for sex. For now anyways ...


However, I will try to approach women just to approach women, but when all you can think of is p#ssy and f#ckin, how are you supposed to approach women not thinking of f#ucking the **** out of them?

aaaaaaaaaaaaargh
 

Lost In Translation

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The Bad Ass Canadian
99.9% of the time, it's a domination thing and believe it or not, has little to do with a man being too horny. Date rape is a different story, but the rape's that happen on the streets..etc... are predatory in nature, and are all about power and control... it's sick

i agree 100%

rape is about violence. when a man gets raped in jail it's not so much sexual. it's an act of violence to demean the victim.

power and control. dominating another person through violence.


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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See a therapist if you are actually serious about what you said. If you're just exaggerating and don't really mean what you said then work out more, take lots of cold showers and masterbate feverishly until the urge passes.
 

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Get rape out of your head....

Don't even think or joke about it.

Rapists are lower than sh*t, and I'd have no problem with executing thousands of them.
 

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stay active

Do some activities to get your mind off of it. B/c if you're on the computer all day and porno keeps popping up, or you're watching t.v. w/ sex pretty much everywhere of course you're gonna get horny.
Go out and play basketball w/ some guys, you'll forget all about sex.
And if this helps, I saw an episode of Beavis and Butthead where they took 'salt peter' and actually stopped getting turned on by girls....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You are obssesing. Stop. That's only going to bring what you want further away from you. Worry about your own life first, and find some goddamn centering in an activity that you are really inspired to do.
Then go out and actually talk to woemn. I dont' care how hard it is. Actually. See this thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81545

YOU NEED TO DO THIS. We have started the bootcamp today ( http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/djbc.pdf ), so SHOULD YOU. If you are really serious, and you really want help. THIS is where to begin. If I don't see you in that thread, I'll know that you were never serious to begin with.
 

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you honestly need to find something else to occupy your time rather than resorting to thinking of rape as a last resort to your issues.
there are chicks at every bar that will slam you for a few beers and a trip to the waffle house.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
you honestly need to find something else to occupy your time rather than resorting to thinking of rape as a last resort to your issues.
there are chicks at every bar that will slam you for a few beers and a trip to the waffle house.
OH my GOD! I've just agreed with a woman twice here in one day. Scary. Penkitten, you are officially one of the very few women who can actually give advice to men.

Work out, or take up a sport. Channel that energy into something productive.

Then read the Bible and join that bootcamp.

Don't EVER think about rape. Rape is sick, period.
 

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I totally feel you, man. I've been feeling the same way lately. Of course, I would never resort to rape. I think you were probably kidding about that anyway. It just pisses me off that all these other guys are getting ass, and I'm not. I think the best thing I can do is make friends around campus. (I'm in college.) That way I can meet girls through people I already know. That's how most people meet anyway. I don't think most guys meet girls by approaching them out of the blue in grocery stores or what have you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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