"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm so horny I think I'm about to rape somebody/thing.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MercutioTHEGREAT
Don Juan
if your horny enough go out and talk to a girl...wait a week and you say enough "your so intelligent and beautiful" you will end up tearing those walls down!!!!!!
it worked for me.
BiggestVaginaOnEarth
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To clarify a few things...
I don't know if I am actually going to rape somebody, but I Wasn't making any jokes about it. I know how ugly rape is, but I will be honest, at times, when I see some girls, the thought and the scenarios do play in my mind.
I have been considering seeing a psychologist, but I wonder if my condition is clinical?
Yes, I have read the DJB, trust me, I have read it over and over. At this point, I don't think my problem is knowing the stuff, it is applying it. No matter how long it has been, I jsut can't get myself to do anything and I am just so sick and tired of this behavior. Not only that, my body is going insane. Is it normal to get turned on my beer commercials? Or get horny by watching
Anjelina Jolie in Mr and Ms Smith???
REgarding the bootcamp, I have tried it several time, but never actually got over the 2nd week.
Is it actually possible to be beyong help?
Before I try the DJBC again, I think I need to stablelize my state of mind first. I will try to be serious about my work out again, to more physical activities and develop better sleeping habits.
I Truly think I am disgusting and I hate that feeling.
Vagina
PS: Is there ANYTHING else I can do? This is getting out of hand.
MercutioTHEGREAT
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.