"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im So Confused!!

Yogibear

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Hey guys, long time reader, first time poster. im a very outgoing guy, pretty popular, people seem to like me. and ive been told im quite handsome. so here is my dilema:

there is this girl i really like. lets call her #1. there is another equally as good looking girl. lets call her #2

#1 has shown definite signs of interest, hair tossing, dreamy eyes, her friend asked if i was single etc

#2 has not really shown any signs, but she is kinda shy

so here is my question: whenever #1 is around her other friends, they keep trying to convince me to go out with #2 saying that she really likes me and what not. and whenever #1 is by herself, she seems very very interested. i think that i connect better with #1 than #2. i just need to know if i should proceed with #1 or if shes playing hard to get, or doesnt know if im interested or what not.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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getready

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**** man i have literally the same dilemma. my #1 flirts with me so much its ridiculous. # 2 seems to like me but doesn't show it that much. yet i keep hearing how #1 is trying to get me to hook up with #2. its pissing me off. why do girls do this? oh and just on a side note #1 and 2 are roomates so im pretty sure if i hook up with #2 i can never get with #1
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yogibear

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jeffthechef said:
kino escalate on both of them...you'll be able to tell who wants you more..or at all
thank you!!! i never really used it before, but kino is unbelievably effective
i got my answer in no time
 

needstochange

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