"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im So Confused!!

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Hey guys, long time reader, first time poster. im a very outgoing guy, pretty popular, people seem to like me. and ive been told im quite handsome. so here is my dilema:

there is this girl i really like. lets call her #1. there is another equally as good looking girl. lets call her #2

#1 has shown definite signs of interest, hair tossing, dreamy eyes, her friend asked if i was single etc

#2 has not really shown any signs, but she is kinda shy

so here is my question: whenever #1 is around her other friends, they keep trying to convince me to go out with #2 saying that she really likes me and what not. and whenever #1 is by herself, she seems very very interested. i think that i connect better with #1 than #2. i just need to know if i should proceed with #1 or if shes playing hard to get, or doesnt know if im interested or what not.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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**** man i have literally the same dilemma. my #1 flirts with me so much its ridiculous. # 2 seems to like me but doesn't show it that much. yet i keep hearing how #1 is trying to get me to hook up with #2. its pissing me off. why do girls do this? oh and just on a side note #1 and 2 are roomates so im pretty sure if i hook up with #2 i can never get with #1
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jeffthechef said:
kino escalate on both of them...you'll be able to tell who wants you more..or at all
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thank you!!! i never really used it before, but kino is unbelievably effective
i got my answer in no time
 
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