"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Errr, don't know what's wrong with me. I met this girl at the start of the summer, she talked for a bit then stopped. Anyways, we've started talking again recently, and to be quite honest I've not been so excited to just talk with someone (nothing else has happened yet, logistics on her end are horrible). Well, we won't be able to hang out for a while (not sure how long, she's travelling for work a lot right now, and while she'll be back for a day or 2 soon I can't get the time off to spend with her). I can't stop thinking about her, and even though I'm chilling with another girl over the next couple weeks it doesn't help at all (she's a girl I talked about in another thread).

Have any of you guys had this problem and what did you do about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chill with another chic yet,make it 3 just incase the other ones fall through.
 
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Dude, she's just not that in to you. Move on.
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dude, she travels for work. Did I give any details that would give you that impression other than she is going to be out of town for a while? That's not the answer to every post on here ( though sometimes seems like that ).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=80553 ... Oneitis.. Recognize it early and do not let it get the best of you. Trust me. It sucks.
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don't think it's got to that point yet. But is always good to watch out for. I've guess decided to do my best and not think of her. And only contact her after she's contacted me (which has already started, in the last couple days she's sent me half a dozen emails).
 
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don't think it's got to that point yet. But is always good to watch out for. I've guess decided to do my best and not think of her. And only contact her after she's contacted me (which has already started, in the last couple days she's sent me half a dozen emails).
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Oneitis means she's a girl you can't stop thinking about (which you stated in the OP.) Man I just want you to recognize this. Having oneitis isn't a bad thing, it just means that you're putting too much thought into a girl.
Believe it or not, you can have multiple cases of oneitis running at once.

As for your situation, the best thing you could do for yourself is to try to detach yourself from thinking about her as much as you are. This will free your thoughts to focus more on yourself, and women who are more available.

Right now she's unavailable to you. Forget about her until she stops traveling so much so she can satisfy your date request. There's really nothing else you can do without putting your happiness and well-being on the line.
 
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