I'm seriously sick of the so called females at my college

[SirFratserlot]

They're all nothing but crazy teases. Lowering my standards doesn't even help because I still get rejected by them. Even girls that are interested in me start playing games. They're egos are just inflated by just everything. Even if I find one girl, I feel like I'm with a ticking time bomb.

 

[mv.89]

that is why we have to learn to change our lifestyle in an Alpha , so it's not something we are "trying to be" rather our Nature overall becomes Alpha.

Once the girl knows , you are more busy than her, got more sh!t to do than her , better than her. She'd be drooling all over you. Keep calm and stay cool bro.

 

[floydb25]

It's all just a game to most of those young girls, so treat it as one. Understand that most of them are immature, cliquey, egotistical, and status-obsessed, and don't take them seriously. College years and prior is the time where you have fun. They play games, cause drama, and tease because they're shallow and immature. Don't get all worked up over those dumb *****es. Most are only good for sex, and respond more favorably to lust / excitement over decency. Acting mature, responsible, serious, etc can work against you. They don't understand this, because they're retarded.

You'll find that a lot of guys in their 20s are also the same way. All about the drinking, partying, getting laid, competing, and being douche bags. Don't take them seriously, either.

 

[Gunner26]

I've got to say, relationships at uni/college don't seem too serious to me. Obviously a bunch of my friends are in relationships, the rest of us fool around with whoever. It is just a bit of fun.

Some girls do tease like ****. It's what they do, and although I'm yet to do the deed, the girls I've actually pursued and then got with, it wasn't really worth the effort I put in, especially for no sex.

In regards to the ticking time bomb, yeah she probably is, but her blast isn't going to hurt you that much, and if it does you got too attatched to the wrong one.

Don't lower your standards just for sex. There's so god damn many woman on this planet, that you've practically got unlimited chances to find a diamond in the rough, the trick is to get out there and keep going.

If they tease, walk away. There's going to be a girl who doesn't play games, and you'll know her when you see her, and then when that one falls through, there will be another down the line. If she starts playing games later on, you can drop her, enjoy it while it's easy. No point sticking around. Keep doing you, and the women will come.

Gunner

 

[floydb25]

Another thing to keep in mind is that people treat you as they perceive you, or as you allow them to. If these girls are teasing you, playing games, manipulating you, using you for whatever purpose (ie, ego boost) - it's because you're either being perceived as weak, desperate, undesirable, of low self-esteem, gullible, easy to control and manipulate, etc, or because you're allowing it to happen. Don't be someone who takes a lot of ****, or allows people to run them down. Since they're immature, egotistical, shallow, etc, they're obviously going to use this to their advantage.

You won't find them doing this to strong, assertive, aware, in-demand guys - because they can't. If someone is running you down in some way - it's because they view you as weak, and have no respect for you.

 

[Burroughs]

It's all just a game to most of those young girls, so treat it as one. Understand that most of them are immature, cliquey, egotistical, and status-obsessed, and don't take them seriously. College years and prior is the time where you have fun. They play games, cause drama, and tease because they're shallow and immature. Don't get all worked up over those dumb *****es. Most are only good for sex, and respond more favorably to lust / excitement over decency. Acting mature, responsible, serious, etc can work against you. They don't understand this, because they're retarded.

You'll find that a lot of guys in their 20s are also the same way. All about the drinking, partying, getting laid, competing, and being douche bags. Don't take them seriously, either.

This is an eloquent statement on why civilization is heading down the toilet

well stated sir

 

[SirFratserlot]

Another thing to keep in mind is that people treat you as they perceive you, or as you allow them to. If these girls are teasing you, playing games, manipulating you, using you for whatever purpose (ie, ego boost) - it's because you're either being perceived as weak, desperate, undesirable, of low self-esteem, gullible, easy to control and manipulate, etc, or because you're allowing it to happen. Don't be someone who takes a lot of ****, or allows people to run them down. Since they're immature, egotistical, shallow, etc, they're obviously going to use this to their advantage.

You won't find them doing this to strong, assertive, aware, in-demand guys - because they can't. If someone is running you down in some way - it's because they view you as weak, and have no respect for you.

They do this to literally every guy because they think they own the world right now. Women are at their prime right now and wks, inflated egos, and the media arent helping the situation.

 

[BeDJ]

This is an eloquent statement on why civilization is heading down the toilet

well stated sir

Some are, some aren't. It's pretty biased to make such generalization. Sharks swim with other sharks. You attract who you are.

If you are living in a low income area, most definitely you will meet more woman above. That is not to say they don't exist in other areas as well. However, to have such a mindset is a defeatist attitude. NAWALT (flame me.)

You come on SS as a recovering, young nice guy. Most of these philosophies are jerk-centric. 'Be the bad boy,' 'don't give a sh!t about women.'. Now if you don't present any value: high ambition, status, etc, you are no different than any other thug on the street; one day hoping he can make it big with his rap talents. Some women fall for that, but are they the women you want to attract?

 

[floydb25]

RE: Low income produces trash...

Not at all true. This area is quite poor (aside from the military), and the people are very nice, pleasant, generous, traditional, quiet, etc. They are also plain - in the sense that they aren't loud, flashy, obsessed with material goods, etc. The focus is more on family and religion, and the people are far more real and decent. Many of the girls are very nice, submissive, reserved, shy, etc.

When I lived in the middle class suburban (white) areas - the people were very fake, loud, opinionated, rude, obsessed with status, looks, and materialism; competing with and judging others by the same criteria (if you were "cool" and "bad" enough). Game-playing, teasing, sexual manipulation, bad boy "prize" seeking was also very prevalent.

If anything, the more income that's involved - the more shallow, fake, materialistic, entitled, and immature the society tends to be. Money was easy up north; the jobs were much better paying than down here. The city culture was also larger and more expensive. But the people were ****. It was all about who was better; drama, gossip, fake Hollywood, wanna be celebrity gangsta bull****. Even the wanna be tough guys acted like girls; judging by status and reputation.

 

[BeDJ]

Floyd,

This is a rare time I have to disagree with you. Low income areas are notorious for women settling down with low quality men. They get married and pop kids before 23. That is all they know how to do. There is no career ambition for low income areas. They are merely content in settling down and starting a family, regardless of their mates' status. Furthermore, religion emphasis is predominant in low income areas.

Hypergamy is much more predominant in a higher income area because women understand/perceive the better options out there. Simply put, it's comparing Hollywood to Sacramento. Women have higher standards and have to play games to filter out quality men. Don't we do that to filter low quality women?

Being negative is one way to to deal with the state of female nature. But is it the most productive?

 

[floydb25]

Not quite sure how or why you disagree, because I agree with everything you just said. It's just written in a more elaborate context on your part. But the reasons you provide is simply why things are as they are... doesn't change the fact that it is this way. The end result is still the same.

But it also depends on how you look at it. They might not be "settling", for instance, but look for the qualities that the society embraces, and they themselves possess. Since people don't care much for looks, status, etc, a lot of decent people get together based on their inner qualities. I don't think leagues even exist here, and you don't really judge or categorize others. No one is trying to stand out, or be above the rest. Sex talk and flirting is definitely a lot lower. Religion also down-plays money, lust, and materialism, and focuses on human decency, marriage, and family.

OTOH, you could look at it from the other perspective, which technically isn't false. But the girls might not be acting this way because they have no options, but the society doesn't embrace or condone strong sexuality, competition, viewing people as being prizes or undesirable (based on superficial standards), etc. It's just not the way it is. It's more traditional., and relationship-minded.

I prefer it this way, personally. I was very eligible / of so-called high class up north, but still hated it. You had to more or less pretend to be something you're not to get noticed or accepted, then you had all the shallow, judgemental, overly competitive jackasses everywhere - claiming to be better than you, trying to destroy your rep, nitpicking your flaws, make you feel inferior to them, etc. Bullying was common - even if verbal. And no matter how attractive or social or cool you were - dating was just a big game. Very fast-paced, come and go, looking for the new shiney type of environment. Nothing lasted, and nobody cared. Respect, class, mannerisms, morality, and decency were also very low.

 

[Black.Magic]

OP sounds a lot like sour grapes, ya know? I would know, too.

 

[Zion]

Floyd,

This is a rare time I have to disagree with you. Low income areas are notorious for women settling down with low quality men. They get married and pop kids before 23. That is all they know how to do. There is no career ambition for low income areas. They are merely content in settling down and starting a family, regardless of their mates' status. Furthermore, religion emphasis is predominant in low income areas.

Hypergamy is much more predominant in a higher income area because women understand/perceive the better options out there. Simply put, it's comparing Hollywood to Sacramento. Women have higher standards and have to play games to filter out quality men. Don't we do that to filter low quality women?

Being negative is one way to to deal with the state of female nature. But is it the most productive?

Precisely this.


Also , OP , you take yourself way to seriously.Your negativity is repelling.

You're not pissed because they play games , you're pissed because you feel inadequate to win. You want everything to come easily because you don't wanna risk your ego getting damaged.

The only time bomb is you.

Proof:

They're all nothing

 

[PapiChulo]

Doesn't matter how negative or cynical he sounds here, it still rings the truth. One thing is that it will make you bitter, which is unattractive. I suggest you play with them, but not by the rules.

 

[goodganji44]

SirFratserlot,

Instead of focusing on your bitterness towards women, channel that focus on yourself. The moment you start falling in love with the person that you are, the women will be fighting for your attention. You're young with a whole lot of experiences to go through. Live and learn from each of them.