“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'm really good with women.......when I drink alcohol!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well, I am assuming you know why? Alcohol gives you confidence.... You will take more risks when you are drunk. You won't care so much about what could go wrong. In all situations... approaching girls, getting in fights etc etc...
I often wake up in the morning to be horrified of the calls I made when I was drunk lol Its because all of a sudden I didn't care about the things that could go wrong..
So, you need to work on confidence, removing fear when sober.. lol, so do I, I am not claiming to be a DJ or anything, I am new here.
Last weekend, I was on fire. I was pretty drunk, and was chatting up 2 legal secretaries. I was making them laugh every other second, and they were well into me, really enjoying my company. Can I do that sober? Not yet, but theres absolutely no reason why not if it can be done drunk....
If worst comes to worst, get drunk, get the numbers and ring them when sober lol
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The downside is that you get sloppy. You start to do things that indicate your drunk-ness without even realizing it...and she picks up on those things and is turned off, unless she's EQUALLY drunk.
The upside is that it removes the inhibition you have. You don't have to play the supplicating socially-responsible chump any more...you can talk to women like you always wanted to and if anyone says anything, "Fvck it, I was drunk."
Now you have to figure out how to get there SOBER.
The people acted similarly at both parties. Starting off a little shy and reserved and as they got more beer in them, they had an easier time laughing and talking and goofing around.
Basically, it was the PRESENCE of "alcohol" that loosened them up.
I know that alcohol DEFINITELY affects your body and mental abilities (Oh good Lord do I know this well . . . and in case I forgot I'm going to remind myself tonight . . .), but there IS a factor of just feeling more comfortable when you see other people drinking like you are.
Just an interesting study I once heard about.
Alexi
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sfalexi, that's a pretty good example of ppl loosening up and what not... reminds of a movie called whipped and one of the main characters said that he gets laid by creating some sort of ice breaker with a chick by pretending he's her friends brother... always kept using the name Jen i think...
SO yah the whole idea was that the parties loosened up when they say everyone drinking... find common ground to connect with ppl i guess....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I reach different zones drinking...after two or three, I have a nice buzz...my tounge loosens up and it's easier to talk...I can be charming at this stage. After a few more, I get philosophical and start arguing about religion or something stupid. If I have a few more...then I start acting drunk...stumbling around, not in control of what I'm saying or doing. Bad things happen...such as my girlfriend getting pissed and eventually breaking up with me (just read my other posts). I'm staying in the first zone from now on when out in public.
I have seen myself on video drunk, telling about my night out. The best way to describe it would be a somewhat crazy storyteller without a social filter going caveman style.
My main thing was that when I drank I truly didn't gave a fvck anymore. You really don't need alcohol, to let the beast come out. Just dare yourself to do some crazy stuff and you'll get there.