"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm really bout 2 next this chick...

BxPrince24

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So yesterday I IM her and she's unresponsive to my questions, like she was occupied with something, she took a while before responding to my questions. So I leave it at that and told her later.

Today I send her a text if she wants to go out next week, and I get no reply. I'm bout to just drop her, I'm too f*cking valuable to be wasting any time. So I'm bout 2 send her a text sayin what's up with her or is everything alright with her, or I might give her a call.

What do u guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if she wants to go out next week
You gave up your power man. You should perhaps tell her that you want to see her and give date/time/etc. If your gonna next her or thinking about it... Tell her its her last chance to get together before you decide. Gotta raise the power up 5k. Lol

I love stringing things like my power man 5k refrence. Without hardly thinking about it weird... anyways... You gotta lay it out, before you play it out
 

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nah, f*ck it. f*ck her. I really don't need this sh*t.

She texts me saying she's unsure where she wants to go and tuesday is good for her. So I IMed her when I got home to let her know I got the job I applied for so I don't know if I'll be able to go on tuesday but I'll let her know. Then she signs off.

I seriously don't give a f*ck right now. I don't need any stress or sh*t in my life. I'm not callin her ass again nor am I IMing her, she can go suck a d*ck. She don't know who the hell she messing with. For the few weeks we were goin out I coulda been banging the sh*t outta other girls. Yo.. What?... Next!.... What?... U deaf motha f*cka?... NEXT!!!!
 

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Ok, now that I've worked out for a bit and got my mind back, yea, I was just overreacting. One of those things like how you do stupid things without thinking, just in the moment. yea. And it was her pc restarting when I IMed her.

I'm not really gonna next her. I don't know, lately, I've been feeling like I don't want to be in a relationship even though I'm lovin being in one. It's not a problem with her, it's with me.

This is my first relationship ever. First girlfriend I've had in 18 years. I guess I've gotten use to being by myself and maybe a part of me want's to go back to that. I know it's sub concious because I want to stay with her.

It's like, you raise a dog in your house for half of it's life then you try to give him to your son to keep, but because the area is new the dog wants to go back to your house, because it's safe, it knows what to expect at your house.
 

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I wasnt going to say anything.... for a bit since you seemed alittle hostile. But you used that energy and put it to better use. Like workin them iron muscles...

Dont let yourself slip into oneitis very dangerous...

I should know it almost killed me (literally) because of this girl I lost alot. ( DUI, driving to elude, and mental institution later.. ) Im stronger then I was before. What doesnt kill you makes you stronger.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Set up date up firm dates and times. None of this lets go out sometime stuff.
 

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Whenever you find a girl totally intolerable, such as she won't answer your messages/calls or pulls stupid stunts - ALWAYS question her, and then prepare to NEXT her, DON'T WORRY about "putting the ball in her court" or "looking fearful" Being a man is having an open heart." NEXT HER, you don't need this.
 
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