"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm ready to finally become a DJ

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Enough of this AFC sh!t! ENOUGH! I'm am all talk no action, and quite frankly, I'm damn tired of it! I'm insecure, and i don't even know why, but i do know that I'm sick of it! There is nothing to be ashamed of. I'm talented, smart, and I'm def. not ugly, so why be so ashamed of who I am? I have confidence, or that's what all my friends say, but the fact of the matter is that my friends don't have any confidence to begin w/. I hide my insecurities w/ humor. I can't help it. My dad taught me to hide my weaknesses, and because of it I don't know how to communicate w/ people on a personal level. I know, I sound like a damn chick, but in reality it's just how i am. How can i live life w.o ever crying, or w.o ever connecting w/ someone other than my parents? How sad is that. Wow, this kid never cries. Yeah i know, I don't. I haven't since i was 8. And i want to be able to express myself without fear of being judged. Truth be told I'm F***** up. On the outside it seems like I'm the typical teenager, with a lot of friends, and a good life, but internally I'm just broken. I'm done w/ LJBF, I DONT WANT FRIEND GIRLS! I'm done w/ bottling my emotions! I'm done w/ my fear of rejection! I am a damn man. I will not be restricted from living my life to the fullest. Who's with me? Who wants to shed their AFCISM and actually become the man they were suppose to?
I'm living my life, and I'm going to live it to the fullest. I only have one life, so why waste it? Starting tomorrow, I'm walking the path of a DJ. I'm taking the road to manhood.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm in the Mood

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Yo I feel you man. Stick it to those LJBF b!tches.
I've had the same problems possibly much worse tho.
The sad truth is, in the end, most girls u like are fvcking b!tches, but they might still be nice to you to save their reputation.

If a girl u really want LJBFs you, forget her and flirt with other girls, just for fun. At some point she'll notice you and she may see that girls find something interesting in you.

Also u gotta live your life to the fullest. I just started living this monday. Before, I never even talked in class and I had like no friends. It's like magic though once you have the motivation and actually do something.

Keep your brotha DJs close too. U can do this sht!
 
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There's some freshman chick that is showing interest in me, and she happens to be pretty damn hot. There is no way i'm passing this opportunity up. She eats lunch at the same time I do. What do you recomend i do guys?
 
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Talk to her????
 
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Yeah, that's obvious........... I mean, she's interested in me. Should i use kino? I don't want to overanalyze or else I'll flake up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jokerlsk said:
Yeah, that's obvious........... I mean, she's interested in me. Should i use kino? I don't want to overanalyze or else I'll flake up.
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I concur with Oakraider, talk to her.

Anything more at this point is overanalysing.
 
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yea keep it simple
 
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Jokerlsk said:
Yeah, that's obvious........... I mean, she's interested in me. Should i use kino? I don't want to overanalyze or else I'll flake up.
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Too late.
 
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The problem with this game is that you can't decide to have confidence and not be AFC. It doesn't work like that. Confidence is illusory. You need competence. So throw this "one chick at a time attitude" out. Approach the entire world around you. Be indifferent if a girl rejects you, be cool if a girl likes you. Keep gaming, and let that confidence develop slowly over time.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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OKay, to keep you guys updated......... I've been talking to this one girl that goes to a school across town. She added me on facebook, and we've been talking on the phone/texting a lot. Anyways, we got to talking, and she tells me that she thinks I'm sexy, and I say something along the lines of, "Yeah, I know." She goes off to say that I'm probably a manwh*re, and I say, "I'm not a *****, I'm a pimp." She goes off to say that I'm her hoe, and I tell her that She can tell her friends that, but in bed she's my slut. She told me to text her, and I said "I'll think about it." She went off to say she would cry if i didn't and I said, "That's something I'm willing to risk." Anyways, I wait an hour, and I don't text her, she ends up texting me, and we talk some fluff. She ends up calling me again, and I bring up something about a family bathroom, and she said "I've always wanted to f*ck in one of those." And I said, "Hmmmm, I wonder who you'd f*ck?" Evidently, I'm the person she was talking about. We went on over that stuff, but I felt the conversation die down, so i told her I had to go, she asked why, and I said cause I have a life. Then she replied with, "I'm not the most important thing in your life?" And I said, "No, my hand is hahaha."
The thing is, is that I never actually asked her out........ I know I should of, but she's a "bad girl/attention *****"...... I'm kind of conflicting in my mind whether or not I should ask her out. I've only met her twice, so w.e. It seems like she's interested, actually, I'm positive she's interested. What would a true DJ do in this situation?
 
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A "true DJ" wouldn't ask what to do on a forum. Don't play games. Don't try to flirt.

CUT THROUGH ALL THE BULL**** first chance you get.

"Hey, you're kinda cute. We should hang out sometime"

She then either says yes or no, you know if she's interested and you don't need to over analyze anything.

You are either in control or you aren't. A DJ doesn't play games with women because he doesn't have time.

The best way to avoid becoming "friends" with girls is TO STOP ACTING LIKE A FRIEND. Friends talk and text each other and sh!t. A real man doesn't need to do that because he knows he doesn't need to "game" a girl to "make" her interested. HE KNOWS HE IS GOOD ENOUGH. PERIOD. No game, no anything.

One sentence,

"hey we should hang out sometime".

ACTION.

Do you like this girl? Attracted to her? Then yes ask her out. Quit thinking so much. If you aren't feeling it then don't, easy as that.

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