"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Im ready for a change.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NorwegianDJ
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i'm fine with almost everything about myself except for the fact that guys who are way doushier and less attractive are in relationships/getting laid and i'm not.
I want to get laid but i don't want to become an ******* in the process.
if there is anything else you want too know just ask
NorwegianDJ
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You dont need to improve yourself to get laid, all you need to do is to stop acting like another woman and confidently flirt with and actively escalate with girls.lgnxhll said:Ok, my name is Logan and i am fifteen years old. i am a 10th grader.
i'm fine with almost everything about myself except for the fact that guys who are way doushier and less attractive are in relationships/getting laid and i'm not.
I want to get laid but i don't want to become an ******* in the process.
if there is anything else you want too know just ask
Improvement involves becoming better for something bigger, which can lead to a lifestyle where you have a lot of girls.
Only focusing on improving yourself will get you no girls. None. Likewise, only going for girls makes you unhappy in the future.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LearningSlowly
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Become that person. Its self improvement and social improvement. No real lines there...
Logan if you want to change you need to start a journal. The strength of this forum is the journals. Those are the people making progress.
NorwegianDJ
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You're the perfect age too! ;DLearningSlowly said:
Man on Fire
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I'm serious, go read a couple articles in it. It will slowly start to change you for better.
http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/
You can also find the link at the bottom left of this page.
When you have a specific question come to us and ask, otherwise you should spend your time reading. Good luck kid!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.