"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Im pulling teeth with this girl but she still contacts me

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I know the answer to this situation but, i figured i'll post for your reference and to get some feedback of things i may have missed.
Anyway, i've been going out with this girl multiple times but, the issue is our meetings are far in between so i'm never able to gain any momentum to build on things. Ever since day one i've been trying to flirt with her by touching her, holding hands, and all that jazz. Despite doing all that, i hardly get a reaction from her. She allows me to do it but, doesnt appear excited. Tried kissing her but all i got was a peck on the lips and little reaction before turning away. Her whole attitude towards me is kind of distant but, she still wants to see me and initiates contact.
My guess is she's a gold digger and just wants some decent looking guy to hang out with in the meantime. One thing i learned is women wont admit to themselves what they really are but, only see things in half truths unlike guys who do an all or nothing deductive reasoning.
Let me know what you all think
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women will keep men as satellites by feeding them attention or making them think they have a "chance" with them. They love the attention, they love increasing their sexual market value, and they love feeling "wanted."

I think if you've tried escalating and she's refused to reciprocate, you should cut your losses and move on.

Any time you find yourself on this forum, posting about a girl you're NOT ****ing, you've already failed. Unless she's also posting about YOU on loveshack or something, you've already pedestalized her beyond the point of no return.
 
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Hakuna said:
Any time you find yourself on this forum, posting about a girl you're NOT ****ing, you've already failed. Unless she's also posting about YOU on loveshack or something, you've already pedestalized her beyond the point of no return.
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So true.

I've never gotten "mixed signals" from any girl I ended up in bed with. If she's confusing you, then back off. She's probably just using you for attention.
 
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