"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im pulling teeth with this girl but she still contacts me

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I know the answer to this situation but, i figured i'll post for your reference and to get some feedback of things i may have missed.
Anyway, i've been going out with this girl multiple times but, the issue is our meetings are far in between so i'm never able to gain any momentum to build on things. Ever since day one i've been trying to flirt with her by touching her, holding hands, and all that jazz. Despite doing all that, i hardly get a reaction from her. She allows me to do it but, doesnt appear excited. Tried kissing her but all i got was a peck on the lips and little reaction before turning away. Her whole attitude towards me is kind of distant but, she still wants to see me and initiates contact.
My guess is she's a gold digger and just wants some decent looking guy to hang out with in the meantime. One thing i learned is women wont admit to themselves what they really are but, only see things in half truths unlike guys who do an all or nothing deductive reasoning.
Let me know what you all think
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women will keep men as satellites by feeding them attention or making them think they have a "chance" with them. They love the attention, they love increasing their sexual market value, and they love feeling "wanted."

I think if you've tried escalating and she's refused to reciprocate, you should cut your losses and move on.

Any time you find yourself on this forum, posting about a girl you're NOT ****ing, you've already failed. Unless she's also posting about YOU on loveshack or something, you've already pedestalized her beyond the point of no return.
 
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Hakuna said:
Any time you find yourself on this forum, posting about a girl you're NOT ****ing, you've already failed. Unless she's also posting about YOU on loveshack or something, you've already pedestalized her beyond the point of no return.
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So true.

I've never gotten "mixed signals" from any girl I ended up in bed with. If she's confusing you, then back off. She's probably just using you for attention.
 
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