"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Im proud of myself! Am i on the right track?

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On Friday while hanging out in front of campus talking to this chick that messed up and was apologizing to me for her previous actions.. I was hawking this girl that was few steps away from me...So while we looking at each other.. I hear her friend say to her "He's talking to her, but he is totally looking at you!"

So they crossed the street, looking at me few times...And that was it!

Couple of hours later after class, i was walking home went up to the subway station, and guess who i see? Those two girls( I started wondering, were they waiting there for me).So i get my metro card turn the turnstile and like a moron dont start a convo and just walk up to wait for the train.....

Then im thinking what a moron i am i should of started a convo, while turning to go back downstairs they both come upstairs and i overheard them say "Where is he"?

So i stopped her and asked her name, couple of questions about classes etc had a good convo going. Then train came, her friend left because she was taking another train ride..

So we got on train continued convo i got her #.. Then she asked me are you gonna call tonight? I told her no im tired ill call you tommorow.. And she was "Yea im tired too im gonna go to bed 2" (It was clear she wanted me to call her same night)

Called next day had a convo agreed to go out on Monday etc. We talked about everything, then she started asking me what am i wearing:D , and she was like im half butt naked without my bra (Im thinking in my head, damn girl your quick i have known you for barely 48 hrs, talked to you for 10 minutes, and i know we clicked right away but damn"..

So what you guys think? She wants me doesnt she?:D What should my next steps be with her, im totally feeling her but im not really showing it, so she knows i have other options which i do
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well when i said we talked about everything i didnt mean it literraly, i just didnt feel like listing the stuff we talked about..

Also when i called yesterday, at the end i said well ill see you Monday.. And she was like so your not gonna call me tommorow? (Today, Sunday)..I was like well no ill just see you Monday, and she was like great..

Should i suprise her and call today? ( I dont think i should, am i thinking correctly)?
 
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Yankee Doodle, it seems like she is the one that did more of the 'pick-up' than you. :rolleyes: Although you did good to open your mouth and ask for digits. I'm sure her beckoning for you gave you encouragement. Sounds like she planned to meet you.

I hope this ho is not setting you up for a trap! Maybe she is a FBI decoy - you are not dealing drugs are you?:mad:
 

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Yes, she is into you.
No, don't call her today. Stick with your own words. I don't think you can mess this up with minor details as it seems to me she has a crush on you.

However Dementia was right, stay a mystery cuz even if you two start dating and eventually become lovers and all, you'll still want to be a challenge for her so she doesn't get bored.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SO,

I got back from my date tonight, and overall it went well... We went to the movies, and then the bar to eat and drink..We were holding hands throughout the date, few times we kissed but not really making out (seems she doesnt like kissing in front of a crowd).. Told me few times she was having fun or had fun tonight.

At the end of the date she asked me when was the last time i had a girlfriend (hmmm?!) So i told her not lately, i just have been experimentning going out with different people and stuff...Then we kissed said our goodbyes, and she told me to text message her to let her know i got home ok..

So now im not sure how to proceed. We have agreed for second date already.. I asked her when we would go out, and then she said when would i like..( SO i guess she was giving me a free hand, for me to decide when i wanted, i guess thats good)

Other then that im still having difficulty determining if she is one of those goody goody girls, or the loose type , i was trying to figure if i was dealing with a virgin or not.. This one is a challenge i believe

So guys, suggestions please, what should be my next step, and how should i proceed..Thanks
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This girl told you she was half naked when she was talking to you on the phone for the first time - what does this tell you???? This is why I called her a ho in my first post! Girls that you met 30 minutes ago don't normally bring this up in the course of a convo.

She likes you - you can pretty much do what you please and I'm sure she'll giggle right through it. Just don't blow it by acting like a wuss by allowing her to dictate the agenda and control you. Go midnight bowling!! I'll bet you a dollar she'll wear revealing clothes and wear underwear that glow in the dark!!!
 
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