"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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im probably just overanalyzing... but

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Hey guys. First of all I know my stuff so don't accuse me of being a noob.
Anyway... on to the good stuff. There's this girl that I kind of know (she sat near me in math class. In other words we've talked on a surface level) and we haven't talked since
School. I saw her at this festival yesterday and didn't get a chance to say hi. So when I got home I got on Facebook and saw she was online. I've been trying to leave behind my *****assness so I sent her a message on chat. I hesitated a few seconds too long and by the time my message sent she was offline. I was hoping to get something back today, but I haven't. I don't know why she would blow me off like that, but I'm proud of myself that I tried. I'm just afraid that when I see her for real, the vibe will be off or she thinks I'm weird. Did I cross a boundary?

Anybody have any input? Norwegian?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think you're over-analysing.

It's facebook man, ****ing technology, there's a multitude of things which could have happened that are more likely that her sending you a message back.

It's facebook, where you can send a total stranger a request to become your 'friend', if she has even had the slightest conversation with you before in her life, she'll reply. Chances are she hasn't been on since then.
 
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Nothing is wrong dude.

I just had to mention: You know know your **** (talk the talk) but the question is in these cases, if you can walk the walk.

Let's say you hook up with a girl at a party, and you want it to become something more, but you're afraid she might think it was only a one-night thing. Let's say you go up to her just waiting for her reaction, instead of acting yourself. If you see it from her side; she might want the same as you, but due to nature, she is gonna be following your lead. In this example you will both fail.

Take the example to this case, and you should just go about as usual. When you see her again, it's nothing different, there's nothing weird. It's most often only weird if you make it weird.
 
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Thanks for the reassurance.

I really have to stop overreacting to stuff like this.
 
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