"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Im pissed with my lack of noticing.

S.Y.L

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2008
Messages
463
Reaction score
3
Today in guitar class we were sitting outside (it was really warm), and I was sitting near this girl, shes pretty good looking, nothing too special, but good enough lol. She always says hi to me, and talks, but shes naturally flirty, so I don't take anything that serious.

Well today, were outside, and she says hey as usual, and sees me with a chocolate milk, shes like, hey! can i have some, and i already drank half, so im like sure, have a sip. Afterwards, she stares in my eyes and goes "that was soooo good", in a sexual sounding, slow voice. She then starts licking her lips and still looking at me, I didn't pick up on this really, and im like, "oh i bet it was"

she them comes and moves her chair to where I was sitting (i rolled up my sleeves, and was showing off my arms lol, and sits right across from me, and talks with me in a group, and keeps staring at me, and instead of doing what I should have done, I quickly look the other way.

I just had to let this out to someone, on how I didn't pick up on this! She was all over me, and I didn't get it at all. I don't really have any interest at all, but I would go out with her, shes nice and good looking. Did i lose my shot at the title, or do you think I should pursue still.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

kraytkiller

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2008
Messages
192
Reaction score
8
Man...if only girls would be this forward with me. :p

Well...and I hope I notice it...

Anyways, it's all up to what she does tomorrow...Maybe she'll try again. I doubt this was a one time thing. Maybe step up the game tomorrow. Keep on the lookout for hints.
 

S.Y.L

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2008
Messages
463
Reaction score
3
Haha, well I don't have that class till Tuesday. But next time I see her, I will definitely step it up, Ill be on the lookout.
 

nismo-4

Moderator
Joined
Jan 31, 2005
Messages
4,438
Reaction score
1,142
Location
From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
A True Don Juan must strike while the iron is hot!

Now you may lose a shot at this hottie, but you know what to do for the next time.
 

S.Y.L

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2008
Messages
463
Reaction score
3
nismo-4 said:
A True Don Juan must strike while the iron is hot!

Now you may lose a shot at this hottie, but you know what to do for the next time.
I know, I'm usualy pretty good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Top