"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Im pissed with my lack of noticing.

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Today in guitar class we were sitting outside (it was really warm), and I was sitting near this girl, shes pretty good looking, nothing too special, but good enough lol. She always says hi to me, and talks, but shes naturally flirty, so I don't take anything that serious.

Well today, were outside, and she says hey as usual, and sees me with a chocolate milk, shes like, hey! can i have some, and i already drank half, so im like sure, have a sip. Afterwards, she stares in my eyes and goes "that was soooo good", in a sexual sounding, slow voice. She then starts licking her lips and still looking at me, I didn't pick up on this really, and im like, "oh i bet it was"

she them comes and moves her chair to where I was sitting (i rolled up my sleeves, and was showing off my arms lol, and sits right across from me, and talks with me in a group, and keeps staring at me, and instead of doing what I should have done, I quickly look the other way.

I just had to let this out to someone, on how I didn't pick up on this! She was all over me, and I didn't get it at all. I don't really have any interest at all, but I would go out with her, shes nice and good looking. Did i lose my shot at the title, or do you think I should pursue still.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Man...if only girls would be this forward with me. :p

Well...and I hope I notice it...

Anyways, it's all up to what she does tomorrow...Maybe she'll try again. I doubt this was a one time thing. Maybe step up the game tomorrow. Keep on the lookout for hints.
 

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Haha, well I don't have that class till Tuesday. But next time I see her, I will definitely step it up, Ill be on the lookout.
 

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A True Don Juan must strike while the iron is hot!

Now you may lose a shot at this hottie, but you know what to do for the next time.
 

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nismo-4 said:
A True Don Juan must strike while the iron is hot!

Now you may lose a shot at this hottie, but you know what to do for the next time.
I know, I'm usualy pretty good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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