"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im pissed with my lack of noticing.

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Today in guitar class we were sitting outside (it was really warm), and I was sitting near this girl, shes pretty good looking, nothing too special, but good enough lol. She always says hi to me, and talks, but shes naturally flirty, so I don't take anything that serious.

Well today, were outside, and she says hey as usual, and sees me with a chocolate milk, shes like, hey! can i have some, and i already drank half, so im like sure, have a sip. Afterwards, she stares in my eyes and goes "that was soooo good", in a sexual sounding, slow voice. She then starts licking her lips and still looking at me, I didn't pick up on this really, and im like, "oh i bet it was"

she them comes and moves her chair to where I was sitting (i rolled up my sleeves, and was showing off my arms lol, and sits right across from me, and talks with me in a group, and keeps staring at me, and instead of doing what I should have done, I quickly look the other way.

I just had to let this out to someone, on how I didn't pick up on this! She was all over me, and I didn't get it at all. I don't really have any interest at all, but I would go out with her, shes nice and good looking. Did i lose my shot at the title, or do you think I should pursue still.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Man...if only girls would be this forward with me. :p

Well...and I hope I notice it...

Anyways, it's all up to what she does tomorrow...Maybe she'll try again. I doubt this was a one time thing. Maybe step up the game tomorrow. Keep on the lookout for hints.
 

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Haha, well I don't have that class till Tuesday. But next time I see her, I will definitely step it up, Ill be on the lookout.
 

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A True Don Juan must strike while the iron is hot!

Now you may lose a shot at this hottie, but you know what to do for the next time.
 

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nismo-4 said:
A True Don Juan must strike while the iron is hot!

Now you may lose a shot at this hottie, but you know what to do for the next time.
I know, I'm usualy pretty good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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