I'm out of my depth:Post-ONS etiquette

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

OnTheWayUp

Senior Don Juan

Mar 4, 2011

For all those who've followed the thread, this girl is currently lying asleep in my bed. She arrived in the mid-afternoon yesterday, having given me less than two hours notice (!), and wants to leave around the same time today. It's been a great few hours. We've barely slept, just talking and/or fuking the whole time! Awesome. It's so hard fighting against my inner ***** though... I'm fighting against myself not to become needy the whole time. I presume this is something that everybody goes through after their first time. I just don't want to get too attached with the distance involved.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.