I'm out of my depth:Post-ONS etiquette

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

OnTheWayUp

Senior Don Juan

Mar 4, 2011

For all those who've followed the thread, this girl is currently lying asleep in my bed. She arrived in the mid-afternoon yesterday, having given me less than two hours notice (!), and wants to leave around the same time today. It's been a great few hours. We've barely slept, just talking and/or fuking the whole time! Awesome. It's so hard fighting against my inner ***** though... I'm fighting against myself not to become needy the whole time. I presume this is something that everybody goes through after their first time. I just don't want to get too attached with the distance involved.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.