"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im on the right way

Lo-Fi monkey

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Basically my highschool life was almost as bad as Viper's. I had no friends, have not been in a relationship for a year, and pretty shy.

Then i discovered this site.
Now my life is slowly changing. Im starting to become more social. I now sit with people during lunch,I feel(and aparently show)that im alot more confident, and ive been rejected so many times im starting to loose my fear of it. Im even starting to get some #s here and there!

Its going to take awhile before i become a true Don Juan but i believe im on the right track.
(Oh yea. definetly try out the Share a Kiss with Her, it works:D http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip221.htm )
thanks

(almost forgot, my dad once told me that dating and boxing are similiar. You just dont go for the heavyweight champ. but you train on the bag for awhile building your strengths and confidence,so that basicaly means that you should pace yourself when dealing with women)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Lo-Fi monkey
(almost forgot, my dad once told me that dating and boxing are similiar. You just dont go for the heavyweight champ. but you train on the bag for awhile building your strengths and confidence,so that basicaly means that you should pace yourself when dealing with women)
I like that. Good stuff, keep on truckin...that sounds retarded but yea hahaha. Go you.:cheer:
 

MrS

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And like in boxing, patience, practise and determination wins.
 
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