"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im on the right way

Lo-Fi monkey

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Basically my highschool life was almost as bad as Viper's. I had no friends, have not been in a relationship for a year, and pretty shy.

Then i discovered this site.
Now my life is slowly changing. Im starting to become more social. I now sit with people during lunch,I feel(and aparently show)that im alot more confident, and ive been rejected so many times im starting to loose my fear of it. Im even starting to get some #s here and there!

Its going to take awhile before i become a true Don Juan but i believe im on the right track.
(Oh yea. definetly try out the Share a Kiss with Her, it works:D http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip221.htm )
thanks

(almost forgot, my dad once told me that dating and boxing are similiar. You just dont go for the heavyweight champ. but you train on the bag for awhile building your strengths and confidence,so that basicaly means that you should pace yourself when dealing with women)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Lo-Fi monkey
(almost forgot, my dad once told me that dating and boxing are similiar. You just dont go for the heavyweight champ. but you train on the bag for awhile building your strengths and confidence,so that basicaly means that you should pace yourself when dealing with women)
I like that. Good stuff, keep on truckin...that sounds retarded but yea hahaha. Go you.:cheer:
 

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And like in boxing, patience, practise and determination wins.
 
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