"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So yea, I just got back from a girls house who I met last night. We went out last night on a double date with my friend and his gf who hooked it up. It went really good, lotta kino and I got a kiss.

She invites me over to her place tonight since her parents were gone. So I was over there with her making out and ****. Then, her little sister decides to call her mom and tell her I was over there. Now her parents head home and I have to leave. And, her parents are probably not gonna let her out.

This kindof **** has been happening to me so much lately, its not funny.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Seriously. She only did that for attention, there was nothing else in it for her. Jeez! Girls are even attention *****s at that age! Stupid kid.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Have you ever met someone who was destitute? Someone who could not be exchanged or abandoned but had to be tolerated?

The first emotion most feel is pity.

Then, after enough time has passed, the pity turns to impatience.

The impatience then turns to hate. That destitute pitiful person is hated by all who surround him, for he is a burden.

Right now you are in the pity stage for yourself. Get out of it NOW before you start hating who you are.
 
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Dude that sucks.
 
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If you are 20 years of age, you should be able to find an 18 or 19 year old hot babe who either rents her own appartment, or shares a house with one of her friends, the moral of this story, is don't get involved with girls who live with their parents, or you will always have to endure these frustrating things, when you don't have to, if you are that old. :D
 
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KoalaKing said:
If you are 20 years of age, you should be able to find an 18 or 19 year old hot babe who either rents her own appartment, or shares a house with one of her friends, the moral of this story, is don't get involved with girls who live with their parents, or you will always have to endure these frustrating things, when you don't have to, if you are that old. :D
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Well I mean I am talking to this other girl that is 19 right now but she is always a pita to get to hangout. i"ve been out with her 3 times

it just pisses me off that every girl i've been with lately, i got screwed over for some dumb reason that I cant control.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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