"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm not used to this when the iron is hot

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So, there's this chick I've hooked up with twice now (the first time was a one night stand last week) and the last time we were supposed to hangout, she was such a god damn pain in the ass to meetup with. I mean, usually for me, the girl is the one to send the first text to come hang out. With this chick, I could've probably never talked to her after the first time we had sex outside of that one night stand and she would've never got back to me again.

The only time I've seen a girl be this laid back (i.e. taking an hour to respond to a text and never initiating contact) was with a girl that just used me for sex. It doesn't feel good, man. This is how I treated a fat chick that I was just using for sex once. Maybe I've just been spoiled by the other girls I've had in my past.

I did tell her that I'm moving to another state in 2 weeks, so perhaps she's trying to not get attached.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yupp, just got used for sex again. This is the second time she flaked out on me (this time it was "I'm pretty beat, so I'm just gonna go to bed. Sorry!").

I guess the girls that have sex with you on the first date or fuck you the first time they meet you aren't really attracted to you. They're just banging you because you're around.

This kind of thing usually doesn't bum guys out, but god damn, it does kinda sting a bit.
 
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To be honest, if a girl has sex with me right away without us having any type of emotional connection I'd pretty much throw her into the 'slut' pile and lose respect for them. Don't get me wrong, I've used girls for sex as well. There have been girls who I've only texted after 2am on weekend nights and the only time I see them or talk to them is between 11 pm and 9am. When I do talk to them, I am usually naked and have conversations like "You like that don't you?" or "turn around I want to fvck you from behind" or "Can I put it in your butt tonight?", etc. These girls would NEVER really make it to the 'girlfriend material' pile unless I somehow gained respect for them.

I know girls who keep guys around for sex that they don't necessarily see as relationship material who aren't particularly sluts. At least not to a great degree of slutiness. There definitely is some type of scale of slutiness btw. More often however these type of girls just like to fvck. A LOT.
 
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