"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm not used to this when the iron is hot

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So, there's this chick I've hooked up with twice now (the first time was a one night stand last week) and the last time we were supposed to hangout, she was such a god damn pain in the ass to meetup with. I mean, usually for me, the girl is the one to send the first text to come hang out. With this chick, I could've probably never talked to her after the first time we had sex outside of that one night stand and she would've never got back to me again.

The only time I've seen a girl be this laid back (i.e. taking an hour to respond to a text and never initiating contact) was with a girl that just used me for sex. It doesn't feel good, man. This is how I treated a fat chick that I was just using for sex once. Maybe I've just been spoiled by the other girls I've had in my past.

I did tell her that I'm moving to another state in 2 weeks, so perhaps she's trying to not get attached.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yupp, just got used for sex again. This is the second time she flaked out on me (this time it was "I'm pretty beat, so I'm just gonna go to bed. Sorry!").

I guess the girls that have sex with you on the first date or fuck you the first time they meet you aren't really attracted to you. They're just banging you because you're around.

This kind of thing usually doesn't bum guys out, but god damn, it does kinda sting a bit.
 
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To be honest, if a girl has sex with me right away without us having any type of emotional connection I'd pretty much throw her into the 'slut' pile and lose respect for them. Don't get me wrong, I've used girls for sex as well. There have been girls who I've only texted after 2am on weekend nights and the only time I see them or talk to them is between 11 pm and 9am. When I do talk to them, I am usually naked and have conversations like "You like that don't you?" or "turn around I want to fvck you from behind" or "Can I put it in your butt tonight?", etc. These girls would NEVER really make it to the 'girlfriend material' pile unless I somehow gained respect for them.

I know girls who keep guys around for sex that they don't necessarily see as relationship material who aren't particularly sluts. At least not to a great degree of slutiness. There definitely is some type of scale of slutiness btw. More often however these type of girls just like to fvck. A LOT.
 
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