"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bankai

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So this girl's been blowing up my phone with messages, I'd reply back for a few then stop for the day. I didn't want to have a txt convo, I preferr in person. I thought I would drag out the chase a bit , you know - make her work for it.

The other day our conov went like so:
her: what r u doing?
me: going to the mall to pick up some stuff
her: oh ? when I have to go later today too =P
me: be there in 15 mins, u?
her: 20 minutes, what are you getting
blah blah blah

I know where she lives, so it seems like she left her house right after she got my message. We met up , we flirted a bit, she gave me a ride home. We joked and txted a little more.

2 days later, she seems less interested and replies very slowly (2-3 hours) (it's odd because she used to reply right away). And her texts are no longer jokes, they're more straightforward platonic questions "what are you doing for mothers day?"

I'm wondering what happened? Did I drag out the chase too long? It's only been 2 weeks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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over thinking = your own demise.....if she wants you she comes to you, plain and simple
 
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girls are weird like that bro. some days they're more interested and excited, and other days they just play hard to get. I'm pretty sure it's all their little game.

Try playing it and using their own tricks on them!
 
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she is probably really into you...but scared herself with how 'needy' she was being texting you so much, with little response from you. I wouldn't worry about it...if you're into her atleast make sure she knows it before she decides you're NOT into her and moves on.
 
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georgie24 said:
over thinking = your own demise.....if she wants you she comes to you, plain and simple
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bottom line factor.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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True, overthinking is not good in relationships... but it's also the reason why I'm so good at my job.
 
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